If there is no interests of the child, then what is the compromise? For the sake of compromise? Based on Your logic it turns out: "Yesterday you child has been baptized, and today I'll have the antibiotics to treat it," well, I'm exaggerating, of course. Or Vice versa, but this fact does not change.Алекс С wrote:of course not, it's a compromise. How to take into account the interests of the child, if there is no criterion of truth? To baptize or not, whether to give medication prescribed by a doctor or not, what temperature bath to do today, how to make a baby finally pooped.С. Альбатрос wrote:interests of the child are not there.
You want to know the correct answer for all occasions or you want to raise a healthy child? Decide the priorities.Алекс С wrote:it's not to Ego, not to manipulate. And me and the wife would like to know the correct answer. And she would gladly agree with my opinion and I would always accept her point of view.
What's the problem if you happy to each other to give in? Where are the scandals? As I understand it, experience in education you don't have yet and what's stopping you develop it together? In my opinion nothing, if you are able to build relationships among themselves. And the world is much easier than you think. We should not look for the right decision, but more to trust his heart. By the way, you know that second children are often much quieter first? This is because parents become much calmer, because in General it doesn't really matter why your child better poop, more important to him that the parents were near calm and loving.
Recently came to visit my nephew, his two sons, the second will soon be two years old. Now, sketch on the topic of education. The child reaches for the bowl of candy. The Pope forbids. The child begins to get angry and to cry. Mom is sorry and urges her husband to allow the child cries, is angry and insists on his. All three of them nervous. In the end, the child is given the same candy, and he joyful treats she came for a visit the aunt. Here's and educational measures without taking into account the interests of the child
The responsibility for your child is not on Vygotsky and company, and not on the grandparents, and you as parents.Алекс С wrote:as for the opinions of relatives on a particular issue, it is strange that some members of the forum so tsepanulo. This same argument. The opinion of Michael for many an argument. So why is the opinion his mother is not an argument. Everyone has their own arguments.
Opinion home mom of course you can listen. But the family is father, mother and children. Grandmothers and grandfathers has his own family, where they take decisions and bear full responsibility for them.
Yeah, well, I guess this discussion should be moved to the gazebo, here is offtopic.<




