time should have already mastered a couple of courses and have noticeable results!
Your example of striving for full-fledged life and self-revealing to those who, without therapists, trying to find a solution and a way out in extreme situations.
Many have similar problems (without them!), MB not so running.
You still all be in life, just don't stop working on him!
Regarding the setting of goals for such cases... I would recommend to begin to formulate a more achievable and visible in the time goal that would stimulate further interest in life! For example, going to the gym/pool, meetings with interesting people (that's MB friends, concerts, exhibitions, Church), helps to rethink life help and work with children in children's homes or with difficult kids... whatever brings you back to childhood/youth, where most of our psychobable...and realize this part of his life differently, forgiving the offenders, or seeing your child's naivete, immaturity, desires, unfulfilled dreams. It is necessary to make yourself something to really do for yourself or others! This nyuansik - force yourself!!! and practice to see the result of your spiritual soiskanie and effort - is a stumbling block to the progress of many! And, of course, if you have a job, the targets for further progress will draw on their
And practices, and drives A. Patrushev -- an excellent guide for those who samosovershenstvovaniya!
PS do not get carried away by several authors, or practices...it takes time(until you find her!) and usually achieve little
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Listened to the end, and when I got up, opened his eyes, and one eye "fell out" is not something that tear, and a hefty drop on the floor...hmm, during the session did not seem to have the desire to cry... Very unusual feeling) and dreamed of the kind of rubbish