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Re: Why I'm annoying people...

Post by мимоходом » Tue May 24, 2016 11:41

Are there people that deserve to be beaten... Good question, considering that all of us in some way, all unhappy with something and just looking for happiness. Is it possible to beat them for it... Except that just feel like bursting from the inside - but that is another matter, internal... And merits of people in this.

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Re: Why I'm annoying people...

Post by Ольга Лагуза » Tue May 24, 2016 11:41

мимоходом wrote: the second reflection
Mirror neurons, imitation.

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Re: Why I'm annoying people...

Post by мимоходом » Tue May 24, 2016 11:42

And who carried with worked? There among us?
On the forum a dozen such people )) you Just can't see them. I can't yet. You can only see it after the fact.

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Re: Why I'm annoying people...

Post by Ольга Лагуза » Tue May 24, 2016 11:46

мимоходом wrote:are There people who deserve to be beaten... Good question, considering that all of us in some way, all unhappy with something and just looking for happiness. Is it possible to beat them for it... Except that just feel like bursting from the inside - but that is another matter, internal... And merits of people in this.

In General, if to reflect... Here for example as people realize that he worked through the fire... If all will blow away a speck of dust to speak only pleasant, to flatter, to play along... the Person never even learns that it is the fire with which he cannot cope.

When people say unpleasant, contrary to his picture of the world (that's the way already meprobamate, as the full picture of the world is not contrary to nothing) - then one understands that light can not cope. Getting to know this side of you, met with devils inside. Until then, they are not visible to the human eye and very happy
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Re: Why I'm annoying people...

Post by мимоходом » Tue May 24, 2016 11:49

I do not stop )) Actually the Buddha is the mind, and meditation is a direct path of development.

But I can share with you statistics, 99% of women think it is harmful ))) Learn to fail in REM sleep and I believe that it is all you need. Or business projects such as Osho read a lot, and believe foolishly and in such projects is all about the money... And from the point of view women need more emotion, feelings, experiences. It is right, of course, is the female pole. But there is another pole, and Mature person - it is the same in both poles
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Re: Why I'm annoying people...

Post by Ольга Лагуза » Tue May 24, 2016 11:50

мимоходом wrote:On the forum with a dozen such people ))
You say that the world is.
мимоходом wrote: you Just can't see them.
I can guess.
мимоходом wrote:you can only See it after the fact.
Exactly like any worked in it.

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Re: Why I'm annoying people...

Post by Ольга Лагуза » Tue May 24, 2016 11:57

мимоходом wrote:causing pain and doing violence
Yeah, I'm "all" raped and hurt them :evil: :lol: :lol:

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Re: Why I'm annoying people...

Post by мимоходом » Tue May 24, 2016 12:00

Yeah, I'm "all" raped and hurt them
Every time a man through the heart feels any emotion toward another person is violence. Though this irritation, though what is called love (love is not, as is water, energy is also violence. But true love is different, it is a state of complete satisfaction with ourselves and as a consequence the full satisfaction of the other, without any claims and expectations)

In General, always when I write (say) in the hearts or the heart or the throat is committing an act of violence. This is the same as physically hitting a man with a fist, not physically. To eliminate the violence only came in a state of humility (morally inferior to the other person, being physiologically attention in the abdomen). All the feelings are true.

And when they write (say) from the head, with attention it is an act of pride, narcissism and self-expression ))

In General, if you omit the attention to the abdomen and remain in him attention all the time - the difference you will notice in yourself. However if the stomach is not developed - it will be possible to identify inner dissatisfaction, which is also uncomfortable ))

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Re: Why I'm annoying people...

Post by Ольга Лагуза » Tue May 24, 2016 12:29

мимоходом wrote:In General, always when I write (say) in the hearts or the heart or the throat is committing an act of violence. This is the same as physically hitting a man with a fist, not physically.
You just pour water... Then You write that everything happens only in our mind, there is nothing like this, now it is violence. However, there is partially one in another, but You're here and if Your mind is not enough to grasp it immediately and Express, and not to oppose, depending on the profitability of the situation. When You say hurt me so I reacted, You say this is nothing. When they say that this is my response to the pain, You say that I commit a violence almost physical. You have not the knowledge You have just the info, but believe me its everywhere.

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Re: Why I'm annoying people...

Post by мимоходом » Tue May 24, 2016 12:48

You write that everything happens only in our mind, there is nothing like this, now it is violence.
You just don't quite understand, or rather I described.

If the person is not making emotion - that all our reactions, is a reaction of our brain. And if the person puts his emotion... That no matter how strange and unscientific it may sound - it instantly, regardless of distance, reaches the destination, you can say fireball, igniting the other )). Creating emotions - violence against others. Response when the other did not put the emotion is your own templates. There and then, and more.

And there's still the mental (thought) level, which is also violence, only an order of magnitude thinner, so we can say little more than high-quality violence. Well, like our dialogue (also violence, Yes). It looks something like this - I grant you, a subtle violence, mental, SATA templates and possibly destroying you in this level can not yet communicate all the time (but some can) and producyruet in response to the coarse emotional (astral) violence. After consideration of the emotional sphere, the emotional ecology is the study of the mental sphere, purity of thoughts and intentions, as well as the appropriateness of any action.

Behind this is more subtle, subconscious level (casual), in the form of "it had to happen, that's right." Well, then, the superconscious, is when the subconscious mind becomes unified. However, for example, to deal with the emotional superconscious, or person on a casual level doesn't make sense, you always have to go down to level+1, getting the advantage, but at the same time having the opportunity to be heard and understood. Hence the inability to distinguish who is who - it's fun. I to you look like a vindictive evil Troll and a vampire ))

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Re: Why I'm annoying people...

Post by Ольга Лагуза » Tue May 24, 2016 13:23

мимоходом wrote: Hence the inability to distinguish who is who - it's fun. I to you look like a vindictive evil Troll and a vampire ))
And You perfect creature, who has worked for the fire, water and copper pipes

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Re: Why I'm annoying people...

Post by мимоходом » Tue May 24, 2016 13:35

no copper pipes left - very unpleasant... the process in which I wander - and you can't deal with a twinkle - and don't know what to do, what's more there is generally no one will tell you it is completely their own. More precisely know, but I can't, it requires will power, which is not enough ))) But you're angry with me, and I'm not ))

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Re: Why I'm annoying people...

Post by Ольга Лагуза » Tue May 24, 2016 16:02

мимоходом wrote:or Rather know, but I can't, it requires will power, which is not enough )))
I, too, will power is poor, and do not want to do violence to me is that the spring shoots then more than ever, proven. They say that the true will springs from love. So while the cost of a wish, a desire, to some extent, intention.
мимоходом wrote:But you all mad at me and I'm not ))


It is not an indicator.

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Re: Why I'm annoying people...

Post by мимоходом » Tue May 24, 2016 16:07

This is not an indicator.
just figure )) will Tell you the secret of how to distinguish between developed or advanced in human development, on what grounds:

- he never gets angry, he has no spontaneous reactions. All emotional reactions are controlled (not blocked, just not spontaneous)
he's a very humble, does not boast, does not humiliate others, humble and quiet
- he's not ACET, generally the pronoun "I" does not. Because there is no "I" and "we" ))
- he respects the opinions and egos of others, never intended to offend

Actually neither you nor I are fit to these points at the moment. But suppose I can get back in such as described, for example, for a week or more not to lower the level of consciousness (though the action is interesting and still not understood, and for that it is necessary in principle to stop communicating, to miss someone else's).

And you can? )))

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Re: Why I'm annoying people...

Post by Ольга Лагуза » Tue May 24, 2016 17:47

мимоходом wrote:Tell you the secret
I may disappoint You, but the overall performance of the advanced man no longer a secret, it's not a secret that all move individually. Take geniuses for example, we cannot say that they are not promoted, but only if they fit Your criteria, because there are many gradations in development.
мимоходом wrote:- he never gets angry, he has no spontaneous reactions. All emotional responses are controlled
And what about Jesus when he's in the Church wrecked?
мимоходом wrote:- he is very modest, do not boast, does not humiliate others, humble and quiet
That is, he's not here? I agree
мимоходом wrote:- it is not ACET, generally the pronoun "I" not used. Because there is no "I" and "we" ))
Even as it uses sacred texts read?
мимоходом wrote:- he respects the opinions and egos of others, never intended to offend
Yes, but this can be attributed also to the second point: And what about Jesus when he's in the Church wrecked. Do You think He there was no one hurt?
мимоходом wrote:But suppose I can get back in such as are described, for example, for a week or more not to lower the level of consciousness (though the action is interesting and still not understood, and for that it is necessary in principle to stop communicating, to miss someone else's).
Oh well, alcoholics also say I can tomorrow to drop but not yet :lol: And ceasing to communicate anyone, rather he can't, because there is no one :) among people in the world so to speak, that's a skill, like Socrates for example.
мимоходом wrote:how can you? )))
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Re: Why I'm annoying people...

Post by мимоходом » Tue May 24, 2016 17:51

And what about Jesus when he's in the Church wrecked?
Jesus never wrote his biography, which, in General, and completely apocryphal. And the gospel (testimony) is a narrow understanding of people of what they saw, if anything have seen from the events... And written by some of these testimonies at the age of senility. John was 80-85 years old when his words another Apostle wrote a gospel (the Apostle was a child in 33 ad). Reliable source of these artworks are censored in the 3rd century BC to be unlikely.
Even as it uses sacred texts read?
see above )) the Fact that someone out there decided to dry out for Jesus with a capital letter - it is his own work )) Actually this is what (Paphos, CDA) - pushes away from the truths of Jesus (unfortunately distorted) so many people looking for in other religions and teachings. You could say it's been sabotage, this form of presentation. And expounded clearly not advanced person, and the person with a swollen sense of importance.

In General, on the subject: the correct statement of the nature of Christianity and ideas of Jesus is the Hesychasm. Still managed Russian elders to produce a synthesis of their own beliefs/feelings with Christianity and show by example the road.
I can tell You what I can, but I'm not going to say this...
is the answer simply - "can't" )) why complicate things.
That is it there? I agree
here is the forum? Two or three person full compliance with, and maybe five will be typed ))) they are Just the cap of invisibility, even if something you write )))

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Re: Why I'm annoying people...

Post by Ольга Лагуза » Tue May 24, 2016 18:48

мимоходом wrote:Jesus did not write his biography
And now, this? :) Quality which indicated You had not written the perfect man, the author. This observation from the side. If someone will tell me such-and-such, then it is not ideal for Your har-ku about modesty and humility.
мимоходом wrote:which generally and completely apocryphal. And the gospel (testimony) is a narrow understanding of people of what they saw, if anything have seen from the events...
And that they are apocryphal?
Apocrypha (from al-Greek. ἀπόκρῠφος — hidden, mysterious, secret) is a work that is not included among the canonical books of the old and New Testament, approved by the Church councils[1].
мимоходом wrote: And written by some of these testimonies at the age of senility.
OOO, here it began, perfection :lol:

Well, date better not to touch, will not be able to reduce them by far...
мимоходом wrote:Even as it uses sacred texts read?


see above )) the Fact that someone out there decided to dry out for Jesus with a capital letter - it's his own work
And it's not just in Jesus, You simply are not aware.
мимоходом wrote:And expounded clearly not advanced person, and the person with a swollen sense of importance.
And without importance, when a man approached the divine, isn't that important, it's important and joy and light and love, I am only the meaning not the one that usual. The people out of the blue, or worse being in a pit of ignorance and it is important and even happy, but there is such a joy...What's wrong with that.<

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Re: Why I'm annoying people...

Post by мимоходом » Tue May 24, 2016 19:23

And without importance, when a man approached the divine, isn't that important, it's important and joy and light and love, I am only the meaning not the one that usual. The people out of the blue, or worse being in a pit of ignorance and it is important and even happy, but there is such a joy...What's wrong with that.
Because you can't see invisible ))

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Re: Why I'm annoying people...

Post by Ольга Лагуза » Tue May 24, 2016 19:38

мимоходом wrote:Because you can't see invisible ))
When a person goes to the "other side" even all nature rejoices, and the man himself is pleased with what is natural, it glows from within with joy. Then it becomes a natural state, but whatever it was, this man uses the pronoun I, and that he actually needs to do? You say he does not say I he says we, but I that is We, it is at that level where there is no division into many.

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Re: Why I'm annoying people...

Post by Ольга Лагуза » Tue May 24, 2016 20:00

the Voice of Silence

Three halls, o weary traveler, you have to go through to end papers. Three halls, o conqueror of Mara, will take you through three состояния14 in the fourth,15 and thence into the seven worlds 16 worlds in Eternal Peace.

If you want to know their names, listen, and remember.

The name of the first hall is Ignorance, Avidya.

This is the Palace where you saw the light live and die.17

The name of the second — the Palace of Knowledge.* In it thy soul will find the blossoming of life, but under every flower a serpent coiled.18

The name of the third hall is Wisdom; beyond them spread the boundless waters of Akshara, the indestructible spring of Omniscience.19

If you want to pass the first hall safely, do not let your mind make the fires of lust burning in him, for the sunlight of life.

If you want to safely cross the second, do not stop in order to breathe in the intoxicating fragrance of his flowers. If you want to free yourself from the chains of karma, do not look for a guru magicheskih in these areas.

The wise do not stay at a merrymaking feelings. The wise do not heed the siren voices of illusion.

Look for someone who will give you a birth,20 in the hall of Wisdom, which is beyond where the unknown shadows, where the light of truth shines in undying glory. That uncreated, lives in you, the student, as it dwells in the Palace of Wisdom. If you want to achieve it and to combine the two, you have to take off the dark veils of illusion. To stifle the voice of flesh, don't let sensual way to come between the light and your light, so that these two could be combined into one. Knowing your own Agnano,21 run from the temple of Knowledge. Dangerous of his artful beauty, and it is needed for your test. Beware, Lana, to your soul, blinded by his deceptive glow, not hesitated and did not fall into the power of his ghostly light.

This light emanates from the precious crown of the great seducer of Mary.22 Feelings, overwhelmed by them, blinds the mind, leading to the collapse of the careless.

Moths, attracted by the glimmer of the night lamp, doomed to perish in the viscid oil. Careless soul, which cannot overcome the mocking demon of illusion, will return to earth the slave of Mara.

Look at the hosts of souls. Watch them rushing over the stormy sea of human life, how exhausted, bleeding, with broken wings, they fall one after another in billowing waves. Throw fierce winds, driven by the storm, they drift and disappear within the first great vortex.

If through the hall of Wisdom you want to reach the Valley of Bliss, shut tight their feelings in order not to have penetrated them ruining the heresy of separation that separates you from the rest.

Do not allow your "Born in Heaven", immersed in the waves of Maya, break from the Universal Parent, of the Soul, let the fire force to retreat in the inmost quiet of your heart,23 in the house of the Mother of the World.24

And then the power of the heart will rise into the sixth, the middle region, between your eyes, where will be breathing a Soul, a voice which fills all, the voice of your Teacher.

Only then can you be "reaching the sky",25 those who held the winds above the waves, and feet its not for waters.

Before you put your foot on the top rung of the ladder of the mystic sounds, you should hear the voice of the inner God* in seven differences.
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Re: Why I'm annoying people...

Post by Ольга Лагуза » Tue May 24, 2016 20:14

I matter and I spirit can not meet ever. One of this pair must disappear — there is no place for both.

Before your mind can understand, the Bud of personality must be destroyed, and the worm of sense destroyed without return to life.

You can't follow the Path, until he became this Way.32

Yes, your soul listens to every cry of suffering, as the Lotus draws his heart to bask in the morning sun.

Don't let the scorching sun dry one tear and suffering, before you did not erase it from the eyes of the grieving.

But let each burning human tear fall on your heart and stays there, not even wipe her while causing her pain is resolved.

These tears, on premilitary heart, — the jet of water in the growing fields of immortal compassion. Only on this basis is blooming midnight flower Buddha,33 which are harder to find and less likely to be seen than the flower of the tree vagi. Is the seed of liberation from rebirth. It hediste Arhat and strife, and lust, and leads him through the fields of existence of peace and bliss, driven only in the land of Silence and Nothingness.33a

Kill the desire, but killing him, take heed that it be not risen again.

Kill love of life, but if you kill the tanh,34 don't let it be out of greed for eternal life, but in order to replace the transient eternal.

Thou shalt not covet anything. Do not resent nor karma, nor immutable laws of nature, and fight only with the personal, the transitory, fleeting and mortal. The staircase rises to the applicant, is built of rungs of suffering and pain; to comfort them can only voice of righteousness. Then Woe to thee, disciple, if you didn't leave a defect, at least one. For then the ladder will give way and overthrow thee, and the foot — in the deep mire of thy sins and errors, and before you can attempt to cross this wide abyss of matter, you have to wash your feet in Waters of Renunciation. Be careful, you don't have to put on the lower level of the leg, which is still in the mud. Woe to him who dares unclean feet to defile even a single step. Smelly and sticky mud hardens, adheres to his feet and nailed his feet in place; and, like a bird caught in cunning snare of a Fowler, it will be held from further advancement. Vices it will take images, and will lead him down. His sins will raise their voices like dragons, laughing and crying at the sunset; his thoughts become an army that will capture it and take captive the slave.

Kill your desires, Lana obessing their vices before we take the first serious step of the journey.

Udochi their sins, make them dumb forever, before you raise your foot to climb the stairs.

To calm his thoughts and keep all the attention on your Teacher, whom you cannot see, but which have a presentiment.

Slay your senses in one, if you want to be safe from the enemy. Because only this feeling, hidden in the emptiness of your brain before the vague eyes of your soul open steep path leading to your Teacher.

Of the four types of Truth:

Not do you through the knowledge of misery — truth the first?

Not if you win ruler of Maru in JI, the gate gain — truth the second?44

Overcame whether you're in a third Gate and a sin not reached the third Truth?

Not yet do you the Tao, the Path to knowledge — the fourth Truth?45

Stay the same from now on under the Bodhi tree, which is perfection of all knowledge, for, know this: you have mastered Samadhi — the state of faultless vision.

Look! You become light, you become the sound, you yourself, your teacher and your God. You yourself, the object of his own quest: an uninterrupted Voice that sounds throughout the eternities, not subject to change, sin is not available, the seven sounds in one —
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Re: Why I'm annoying people...

Post by мимоходом » Tue May 24, 2016 20:19

You say he does not say I he says we, but I that is We, it is at that level where there is no division into many.
Here you consider the importance and pathos - an example of a developed person who writes I with a capital letter. At the same time say that I am undivided we. You read it, but did not understand. Not understand, because I see some enemies, take revenge on someone, fighting with someone. The question whether your opinion is right that the importance inherent in the development of man as ego in the form of a capital letter I ))

And instead of copy - paste- better to learn to present their own words to Express their own opinions. So the brain develops.

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Re: Why I'm annoying people...

Post by Ольга Лагуза » Tue May 24, 2016 20:35

As you can see, Igor, it's all hundreds and even thousands of times harder, harder and actually we (people of our time). The probability of stray from the Path rising with each step, that is, at the first stage the chances or slightly smaller than fourth, no matter it's, a fall can happen every minute, and with the fourth to fly on, and the force of the blow necessary to understand other, important only after the fact, and the rest, like who is where, and have no idea, you never know today who and where, the next day someone would set out with a goal, and will bypass all hung here and there. This makes no sense to boast, because there is NOTHING :cry:

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Re: Why I'm annoying people...

Post by Ольга Лагуза » Tue May 24, 2016 20:39

мимоходом wrote:Here you consider the importance and pathos - an example of a developed person who writes I with a capital letter.
I don't think so. And big I considered to be higher, a little lower, I meant higher, I have advanced a person of lower I should not be on the idea.

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Re: Why I'm annoying people...

Post by Ольга Лагуза » Tue May 24, 2016 20:44

мимоходом wrote:Here you consider the importance and pathos - an example of a developed person who writes I with a capital letter.
And in General, I write :) now with a capital letter, and here is an example of human developed or not developed? :roll:

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