МерКаБа wrote:Bold

Merkaba, You're incredibly intelligent and eloquent. Especially when you have nothing to say.
Mailing Astra-systems.
Hello!
Ten times a day I have to explain to different people is the same.
The theme concerns people who live very modestly, if not less.
Very very poor they can not be attributed because they act and not sit idly by, but they have to count every penny. Ie they have something to earn, but very little. They are busy surviving, not the process of getting joy from life.
They "head" to pose the question of why they can not get rich although they really want, and they are even willing to try for this.
For many, the situation is familiar.
The explanation I give them, but they don't want to understand and accept.
They require such explanation, which would not run counter to their beliefs.
I have this explanation that it's convenient for them, no.
JUDGE FOR YOURSELF.
I explain to them, and how?
Start with a question: "Tell me, who goes to the ballet? Who goes to the Opera? Who goes to football matches?"
In each of these places go to those who like what is happening in a particular place, it is only logical that they say.
-Ie, a kind of "clubs", where those who like ballet or football? continue to ask me.
-So.
Take another example,- I continued.- Stole two cars. One machine - an old "Lada", owned by a man with very modest means, and the second car - a brand new Mercedes stolen from a person with high income. What's your reaction?
-Will sympathize with the person who stole the old "Zhiguli", as he so hard life. And the rich - so be it:there will be once again with fat rage. What is his regret? It is a new car will buy it and not blink an eye - so many answer.
But, they both suffered. Why are you one regret, and over the trouble of another gloat?
- Sorry for the poor and for the rich because they rich and need to respond to me. - Completely lost the conscience. The main thing for them is to fill their own pockets, to grab something that is bad or to take away the last of the poor. About ordinary people, they do not think, kept himself to himself, and all of them a little. The rich are thieves.
"I see," I say. Rich you don't like because they are bad for others, not thinking about other people. And how You personally treat others?
Well, there is a pause for meditation. - I want everything to be fair. I want the good for those who live badly, want to be able to help them. I want to teach them to live right.
"Wait," I say.- How can You teach right and good to live for others if we live in difficult and bad? You cannot teach what you cannot do.
But I do want good people, - I hear in response.
- And they (the people) asked you about it?
This question puts the interviewee in a dead end.
-Do you remember where we started? - I continue. - We started from, for whatever reason, people informal unite in certain groups, even if not familiar with each other. The closeness of interests brings them into groups where they feel like fish in water.
I'm personally not against Opera, I just don't understand her and she does not like me. I will never feel at home amongst Opera lovers.
And in other areas of life - we are looking for the position in which we are comfortable that we understand.
Now be careful, although many of it is very angry.
You stepped into the "club" living modestly or in poverty, you have to convince those with whom this conversation took place. In this "club" you your. In your face around find understanding as you find understanding of them. You keep saying that rich is bad and even despicable people, but for some reason asking me, how would you get rich how to break free from the world of needs, from the constant state of fear for the future.
Yes, there is another club, which we conditionally call "the club of the rich", who think about expensive cars, the resorts, the jewels and other things that is overkill in your opinion. They do think more about themselves than about others.
STOP.
STOP.
And again STOP.
Leave your emotions to yourself.
What happens?
Think logically.
People who think more about others than about himself, wishing the good for those that live poorly, they live modestly or poorly.
-So?- I ask.
"So," I reluctantly answer.
-People who care more about themselves, about their well-being, live in abundance and joy. So? again I ask.
-So, with a sigh answer me.
-So you're not in the "club" he joined - I say.- You will NEVER live well if ALL of your thoughts about what others are hard and need to think about how to teach them to live easily and happily.
WHAT YOU CAN TEACH THEM?
In short.
You do this way and this "club" was chosen, and there is nothing to be offended that you "hang out" with the same interests, that you are not dragged by the ears into the club of "rich". You yourself proved that the rich bad attitude, but, like, not to get rich off.
You need to do?
To stop self-deception, I tell you.
-I say, the poor (th) because a lot of other people think - so you say.
And you try to stop thinking about other, squandering right and left all your energy and focus on yourself.
You don't want?
Well and stay in the "club" which voluntarily joined<