Well. Recommendations.
1. We have a lot of friends that pregnancy prepared before such - and rightly so. By the way anticipated in advance the child in every sense of the word more blessed (power, health, etc.).
2. in many cities in many CIS countries and not only there are different courses good. In Moscow is clearly "magical child"
http://www.magichild.ru/ there are many others, but some odious, some people like only themselves, some are fixated on the paradigm of calling it what ever the origins. However, it is useful to know which is which.
Walsh. child - the place is popular among a fairly wealthy business layer of Moscow recommended to friends and acquaintances and it is often possible to accidentally meet anyone you knew from other places-business.
3. to know which is which - it is useful to search for the Internet community. This has a number of advantages. Firstly not bound by geography. In the second chat with like. Many different communities. Some have closed because of "attacks" system-level. Through the community can be a good idea to go to a regular children's and adult parties, gatherings and so on.
This is very useful even for level "all baby." Firstly because these "just babies" perfectly communicate without words with their own kind. I'm not kidding. They have it great and as soon as you see even-aged. The second party is an outlet for mom's to her roof did not go from sitting at home. Thirdly there are mixed-age children and the children socialization is not the level of "kindergarten" and the level of communication with their peers and with Straseni and adults.
The truth is after giving birth. But before the birth it is useful to attend to the correct process themselves.
For this purpose, there are mentioned courses (a lot of information in one message not to push in any way) and various other sources of information (e.g. the aforementioned log home kid to have the website).
You need to understand that the birth in a modern hospital. even paid, in the country (or countries speaking about the former USSR) is moaning and crying. Even a lot of money still he (moan and cry). Well, if you know of course what is happening there.
And happens like this. A natural process that can be traumatic not completely safe and pleasant (I misspoke) and for mom and child turned to disease diagnosis (pregnancy for modern medicine is the diagnosis!) and in many cases trying to "cure".
The most frequently used methods of "treatment":
- feeding during pregnancy women different ways of pills that were not useful (and because we experience love, Russia and Ukraine are the cheapest polygon testing new drugs for Western pharmaceutical industry), and also because the "doctors" often just operate on the old stereotypes.
- wrong advice on nutrition
- incorrect interpretation of tests (which are also so often not necessary to take generally for real medpokazany).
- excessive ultrasound for no reason (they actually have an impact on the child and it is scientifically proven, and the reaction of the kids in it clearly visible)
By the way there is in Moscow a CTA (centre of traditional obstetrics) - a good office, but leading doctors pregnancy there are different.
at the stage of childbirth that I love to do really not very good:
- having a C-section all in a row with no real need to hurry himself to shoot or to play it safe. (bad that is more than reliable information about the very serious impact of this method of birth for all child's life - and there are hormonal different than occurs naturally, and most importantly the child does not receive the archetype of overcoming difficulties in your character is more than real, not my invention). Many mothers, becoming conscious for 2 or even third generations manage to give birth naturally after a caesarean (although the bulk of hospitals will say that it is generally not possible because the seam from the surgery, but in most cases this is not a problem if under medical control). Now the situation brought to the absurd. By reading reviews expensive commercial hospitals you can understand that moms just want their "accessarily" type is easy and hassle - idiot (sorry).
Thus doomed to difficulties if you go decide to go the natural way and the baby in serious difficulties raised from birth (a violation of a number of natural energy, biological, and psychological mechanisms).
next is often very like to enter into the process of childbirth to a woman of different "medical care". Namely obessolivanija epidural
(
http://onarkoze.ru/anestezija-pri-rodah ... rodah.html - here to read, so you might think that it is a holiday) In fact, for both mother and child is a shock thing. Mother because many then the lower half of the body still for a long time remembers that ushered in the spine. For the child because the mother is "anesthetized," although the correct natural childbirth should not be painful, is that their hospitals are doing so. But the mother is numb feels nothing "from below". I.e., she gives birth to a child with a dead lower half of the body. Instead of the mother hurt the CHILD! And finally, in Europe a long time statistics spent. All types of drug intervention in childbirth lead in children to extremely high percentage of drug disposition. According to the statistics the picture is more than sad. Ie mother stabbed to her an hour did not hurt and raised the child a drug addict, good price?
Similarly ( but not so tragic) things with a thing called "medicated sleep".
And that everything went smoothly and well without the injections - you need to get the information in advance. Muscles to train in advance (there is a special exercise). And to know the correct for the baby to breath and comfortable for mothers poses.
And in maternity home it is still permitted to do - to be a good father (and support for giving birth is great) plus to have a contract with adequate hospital and know what to do what is necessary.
That's adequate training.
Next age "baby."
Typical error of the classical approach and what is to read.
At komarovskogo (esctacy pediatrician child known to have his thick book to sell and probably the network) to read JUST ABOUT HARDENING, it is not necessary to coddle the baby. In a room temperature of 20+-2 degrees in a child of perfect thermoregulation. He doesn't need socks, hats and lots of clothes. From them he's HOT and he's crying (typical story).
A light diaper or blanket (to lay on during sleep), sleep - naked.
Ideally then there will be no colds-snot.
Tested by many mums-dads.
Igrid Bauer to read "Life without diapers" - be Sure!.
It's a really important point. It not only will save the child from this beach time (we somehow raised without them) and from disorders of thermoregulation and violations of sexuality later (caused by the permanent closure of parts of the body in infancy), and will save parents a lot of time and money. And without the hassle. believe me. The child is weeks old he is able to signal that it must be "planted" to pee or to poop.
Diapers - just for the street. We have, after 8 months they and the street was not used. Missing out on many times since removed - it's DRY, the child himself suffers (well, who wants in his pants then). If it does not take him long, not to introduce the practice of planting - so I this story for a long time, because the child breaks a natural mechanism, and he learns not to hold back yourself and immediately pour into the pants. It is necessary to you?
I recommend reading Lindloff.
next. Most proper sleep for infants - mommy's side. The crib is a place for children's clothes stall stacks in General, it is not needed. For a minor one is bad. And with parents - cozy, warm and reliable. Mom's the word, breath, heat, heart rate. In this mode, everybody sleeps at night.
Since the diapers are not used, then used disposable diapers and their consumption is insignificant as well (by the way, they are German not reusable absorbent "tsanovska").
Generally the Europeans and in particular Germans, this is very good. And instead of diapers they have reusable nappies made from environmentally friendly materials, with natural antiseptic properties and so different of other goodness there, and so on.
This we do not know about it ... wild.
Same story with wearing children in a sling. On TV trying to spin some kind of dill. Well, I'm not talking that sling (which is a lot, but the sling-scarf
http://images.yandex.ru/yandsearch?text ... k=1&lr=213 ) roots and the ancient Church frescoes clearly show that Jesus is dragged very even nothing
but the main thing that in Europe and the USA is a typical and expensive commodity. Again, natural materials, different fabrics, and so on. These products are from cheap to very expensive (more than 1000-1500 euros) and the Europeans and the Americans of course are idiots?
and they there is nothing trying to denigrate. It's just there.
The meaning is that both at home and on the walk-and ride - a child is calm when mom is sleeping or eating "on the spot", not crying and mom has free hands.
Full freedom of movement. If I leave prepared normally and the mother weren't injured - that from birth almost (well in a week, and at home before).
In order to learn such an "interface" between mom and baby (or dad and child, dad hauling kids and it's convenient to a year or more) have a special lingoconsult that a professional can show you how. Or ACC. parties there are those who do it just for the occasion.
Next.
while the child is growing slowly need to start thinking about its development.
I.e., the right toys, books and more. Here simply. Not to change the message in the book - in the above places there are proper products and information. Children's educational books are now is very different. It's good to take directly from publishers in the collective procurement for myself, or wholesale (small wholesale think of it as if to gain another bag of different needs children's educational books).
but besides the games and books need certainly normal exercises (a La dynamic charging)
then you need video and if mum and dad are new at this, it is possible and someone showed.
Not overly necessary, but a reasonable approach the child very much and he quickly starts crawling-sitting-walking and so on
further small probability of accidental injuries and other nonsense.
Well, there is swimming, which is better in a large tub and not small (it also has a lot of information, videos, etc.)
There are more air baths.
And much more.
About vaccinations (what was the beginning of the topic) even think to say stupid - a lot of material there. Some of them you can count written by conspiracy theorists. But if you look at the situation in some countries such as Latin America now (where increased generation of those vaccinated-the vaccinations, the who), it becomes not to jokes. Since there are IVF conception now in Vogue at the level of government subsidies.
The observations of children are not vaccinated at an early age, they almost do not get sick. The teeth are cut with a slight runny nose and all. It's not one or two, this statistic many parents, including in cases when the family is vaccinated children (usually earlier). Naturally, everyone decides for himself on the basis of available information. Yet (perhaps not for long) we have it is legally possible to refuse vaccinations, including the first, in the hospital. Better to warn about this immediately. In the Moscow hospitals the scale bounce high, they have prepared paper forms for such failures. Something where they just offer.
some of our friends giving birth on the periphery, in the process of rejection of vaccination, was just referring to the involvement of myself to be supporters of the Church
(this idea im the doctor threw a surprised asking - "are you from the Church community"
to questions then it was not so they said it would help to remove unnecessary questions and attempts to persuade.
Of course I do not call to refuse vaccinations and only tell how it is
the business personal as the saying goes.
Well, I think that's enough to start. The rest of the information then falls on the channels of "collective intelligence" by which to communicate in person and online parents of healthy children.
Information this is more than enough.
Yes, there is a tendency of the state to crackdown. But there is a legal basis for competent work with this.
No need to put yourself and child as "an anomaly".
By the way I highly recommend to attach the child (if needed) to some of the departmental commercial the clinic doctor to call on the real neobhodimosti (they are all the old saying - a quiet horror), and figure out the coordinates of the traveling child's pediatrician recommended a community in your city or area. There are also.
Again, some questions are better not with the doctor.
For example what concerns GW (breast scharlemann) is better with the consultants, many of whom the issue and paid and even free. For example, the doctors somehow don't know that GW can be recovered(actually always) if it was interrupted (happens for example if the mother's health after childbirth was something wrong, and so on), the doctors somehow do not know if to be decanted, to maintain a harmonious rate of milk is extremely difficult and always will be torture. and a lot of what they do not know the average weight. there are certainly a lot of competent - counsel with the people! this is the Internet.
HS to a year or more - a pledge that the child is not sick or sore easy cold, which takes place by itself. Now full new Western studies that showed that breast milk after a year is not "water" as the doctors say of the old school, and a very useful thing.
doctors love to convince you that the child needs to drink water (delirium, he gets all of the milk until you start to be interested in other foods) and that complementary foods need to enter almost 3 months (also nonsense).
There is generally a "pedagogical feeding" - highly recommended. This is true provided that the parents eat less healthy food. For a long time on GW + pedagogical lure will be due to the fact that You never know what jars of food, their heating, porridge and so on. Ie this is no problem either you or the baby. Asked to believe is much better for all
By the way, another completely unnecessary thing is the nipple. Honestly. And in the form of "butylate" in the form of dummy (psychological gag-Mama-substitute, if the child is crying need of the mother and not the plug).
If silicone and rubber in your everyday life too, no heap of problems with their washing and other things, and your parenting becomes pleasant and carefree and kid a lot better
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