нина123 wrote:You know ,I guess it's all individual...for Example now a very fashionable word visualization for me does not roll.Unfortunately, I don't feel anything, when something is bought.Just a "stupid" plan...In small things everything works fine, but the "big" unfortunately.javascript:(':oops:')
Probably still correct "feel". If not visualization, and there is nothing to bother. People are divided into cinestetico (those who feel), auditory learners and visual learners. If you plan on something large - it is necessary how to wear this thing (situation, career, house, etc.) or to enter it. To visualize optional. And to be in it. After some time, will go a burst of energy. Just are in your subject. Periodically check yourself, are You still there?
The problem in this case. Focus how tall she was?
How much You have enough when the big goal? Day, week, month, year...? For the realization of a big goal, you need more time, often the implementation consists of a variety of spectra, including work to develop some of the necessary qualities and that You probably currently do not possess. Including the ability to hold the coveted acquisition. How much will have to spend time, is not known. Many working hard and not seeing results, stop. Quite possibly, a few steps away.
That would not stop, you can use the phrase from the movie about ocean and his friends. There Ocean said about this: "I know why you always win. You always put yourself in a hopeless situation."
I'm here talking about the realization of a big goal. When much time has passed, but no result. But you know that you need it and at the same time working to improve their personal qualities. In this state you realize that the situation is hopeless, there's no turning back. There is only one to tread the chosen path forward.
You know: "the Winners who are a little bit - want. All the rest - want want".
You need to understand, once you've got the desire and you have[SPAM] will bjesse over its execution, all right. Because there is a cool expression that explains what will. "Desire is possibility SEEKING EXPRESSION, or function SEEKING PERFORMANCE." That is, everything is possible. The choice is yours and your actions along the way.
It is also not my phrase: (but lifts the spirit)
"In life materializes only the main target, constantly lying on the threshold between the conscious and the subconscious."
"If today I do what most other people do not, then tomorrow I have what most other people will not have".
Well, referring to the acclaimed movie "the Secret", I can say that they are right in many respects. It sounds like a good phrase: "You get what you feel, not what you think."
There is a pattern in the form of an hourglass. The dark part and bright. They represent human emotions. Negative emotions attract negative developments. Positive emotions attract positive life. This is the main difficulty. To be constantly positive.
Forty years ago, in all theaters was a documentary. The script was written, or Simonov, or Smirnov. Were interviewed 20 participants of the second world war, heroes of Soviet Union and full gentlemen of order of Glory. All privates and sergeants, not a single officer. Of the 20 people, only one during the war was injured. Started the war in 941 on the border, graduated in 1945 in Berlin. I still remember his interview. Something like this: "Went on the attack, next fall, took the village, went on again killed and wounded, and I have no scratches. And so the war on the front lines." But it is not in words but in how he spoke. Out of it and after 20 years after the war, the same key was happy, he was just beaming, the energy beat out of him just a fountain. It seems that positive emotions and war can work wonders.
If the result of continuous exercise for the implementation of objectives (and of course any action in material terms), you will achieve lasting positive emotions (joy, burst of energy) at the mere memory of your target you can hold this purpose for a long time in the mind, then all practical steps will be clear to you. They are useful to achieve the goal, or useless. Any action is accompanied with the phrase: "I'm doing this in order to get what you want". Get joy or a surge of energy - you are on the right track. No inspiration - don't.
And again.
All the buzz from achieving the goal, the person is in the process of obtaining the desired. Got and the fervor fades. Emptiness. Then what?
Therefore, it is necessary that the target was a chain.
It turns out that meaning is not in the possession of the goal, but achieving it and their own development at the same time.
Stopped - started the process of dying.<
And when You are "just looking", then what are You doing in my head (or somewhere else?) and how is this different from being able to imagine that "you have just reached"?
Then perestroika began, and the factory said (or they thought 
) that the basins no longer needed... That is, they're in the factory zaprogrammirovat... But here's what you need to do and how they do not say... as a result Director with the accountant appointed himself a big salary, and the pay stopped, passed all the coxae and part of the working equipment into scrap metal, and 2/3 of industrial premises - to rent. Now imagine that the plant is the body (psyche) and think about the consequences...
Read the electronic version and immediately bought the paper, for the couple that was at hand. She just loved it, everything is explained step by step and without problems. The translation, however, is a little weird in some places, but the line can not judge until the original hands are not reached. However, it doesn't matter, the important thing is that for me this was convincing, because each needs its own set of arguments.
