The heat in the subject, even scary to go so as not to fall under the hot hand or something.
But LIVELY and INTERESTING! I'll try to explain to some angry followers of personal development, what I meant by creating this topic.
I'm reading the threads of this forum, I saw people who shoveled a bunch of different systems, and can distinguish between "slag" from the really valuable information. And just wanted to have a topic that any newbie can find the info on the basics of how to "enter" the system of self-development. What to pay attention to. What are the most banal and common errors. And it is better to create something like "ABC beginner", the collection of tips and exercises. A simple (the simplest), which firstly does not require technical equipment, and secondly is easy to learn, thirdly - don't really depend on location, time and place of the meeting. (A couple already in the discussion threw
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Agree that all the themes of the rest of the forum is mainly targeted at people who have these same basics. And the newcomers ,as silly first-graders on tour at the Institute , ask questions, and only a few have a condescending answers. But mostly they (we) say:"I do Not understand, then it's time, read the forum and the realization will come."
Education is primarily a system. A large part of the system - knowledge of theory, methods of solution, developed by God-knows-when. And just taught in school as truth. That is, the school is not forcing the students themselves to seek the solution of theorems to prove the laws of physics, re-open the chemical elements. And teach: "Make so-and-so, will this result is based on the law of so-and-so scientist who discovered it then". You take this knowledge for granted and just use them.
But when it comes to personal development starts some mess. Tens of thousands of methods. Thousands of directions. Hundreds of enlightened, which some only know where to move and how. And meanwhile, among the followers, very few really advanced in the personal development of the people.
Do not you think this absurd?
To accuse everyone that they are just lazy, a little work on yourself, pursue new artifacts, casting the old, not using their potential, it is certainly possible, but this is not quite correct, in my opinion...
My personal opinion is the lack of primary education in this area. No "Alphabet". No elementary school where patiently explain the basics and help you to find points of contact with the world of personal development. Helped to understand.
While in fact, it turns out . First-graders ( a person who first begins to comprehend the basics of self-development, differently you will not name) display on the road and say, "Well, it's time to learn the science. In this city, 20 schools, 5 of them with a mathematical bent, two sports, one with a bias in.yaz. . Some teachers just teach, but do not explain anything really, so be careful. Some explain, but it's all nonsense, and some you will beat and take away pocket money. There are two schools and one Institute. But where and what to study, you have to understand yourself, because it's an adult. And remember, you still get education SOONER OR LATER, one way OR another!"
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