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by .по. » Thu Sep 28, 2017 15:48
No ))) it's One thing to think something consciously, and another thing - neverlost inside. Which is suppressed is cut off and is out of his sight. It feels the source.
Consciously, in words, can be nice to anyone, anytime, in response people will rip - but it's not a drop no closer to understanding what every one of them inside that they are mentally blocked. You need to first be very honest with yourself - and while a person climb out all the monsters.
You can't just put on a mask, smile, say how happy you are, how lucky you are, and so on -- Or can be - but it's just a lie... need to take fully, with all the pluses, not suppressing them, but rather taking is because you are like this... And then very very long for these cons to change, working with you.
What you wrote is just false bilateral mutual, two masks... If a man treats you Napolitano - he's just honest and it's very good, unlike the "good against" in words (and threads Mr. non-verbal). Inside it is ugly, but honestly expressing himself. The next step is for him to understand that he is ugly, not the one he is experiencing negative feelings
You need to distinguish your status "I'm going to feel good in spite of everything, even the things" the state of "I itself is good, it's my nature, I just can't get angry." The first condition is shumopodavleniya. Second - the required. And the more you will find second - the more you will be angry, trying to "equalize vessels"
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.по. on Thu Sep 28, 2017 17:20, edited 2 times in total.