Different psychological... opportunities. And impossibilities.
Posted: Thu Jun 06, 2013 20:21
Looking at "storm", which periodically rocked the local (and only local) co-society, I sometimes remember the lyrics like this (maybe someone else will come in handy):
"...Psychologists, and representatives of other professions, especially working with peoplehave their professional skills, also called professional deformation. Of course, different people have these features expressed in different degree, there is a direct correlation with experiencebut in one way or another since they are students.
- Psychologist always refers to the subjectivity of any opinionwith the exception of cases, confirmed by statistics and conclusions from them, the next logical neprimenuli. One of the main rules practical psychologist - not to transfer to the interlocutor your problems, so any opinion about the other person served with the indispensable introductory momentum "I think" "I think", "in my opinion", etc.
-- Psychologist with neprimenuli has a more developed reflection, than representatives of other professions. Therefore, rarely confuses its attitude and its goalwhy sometimes may look cynical rational.
- Psychologist very familiar with how often people are wrong. Hence the psychologist more critical to feeling own innocencebelieving that it is just a feeling, and greater respect for the possible truth of the interlocutor.
-- One of the tools of the psychologist - working with perceptual positions. Therefore, the psychologist will rarely tell another what you would not like to hear it. For the same reason, not going to say that you can deploy in the opposite direction. For the same reason in conversation evaluates not only his position, but also how it is perceived by others. If a person does not, he is not a psychologist.
-- Psychologist avoids use of nominalization and tries to be accurate to a logical ligaments - he knows that it leads to errors.
- Psychologist - very tolerant creature. Imagine, comes to you and says that at night he goes out into the streets and killing old women with an axe because of 20 cents. You banish him with the words: "How dare you come to me, a scoundrel and a villain!"? Or work with him? If you work hard, you will treat him with hatred and contempt? Needless to say that if the customer is not to make friends, some good will come of little.
- Psychologist knows that the conflict is an extreme the means of solving issues fairly ineffective. Therefore provokes him only when clearly needed. For this reason, the psychologist never accused of evil intentions, even if such came to his head.
- The psychologist is well aware that nowith the exception of heavy pathologies, not evil desires. Just a different idea of good. Therefore, psychologists normally anybody respond negatively..."
PS Psychologists and psychiatrists - not the same thing.<
"...Psychologists, and representatives of other professions, especially working with peoplehave their professional skills, also called professional deformation. Of course, different people have these features expressed in different degree, there is a direct correlation with experiencebut in one way or another since they are students.
- Psychologist always refers to the subjectivity of any opinionwith the exception of cases, confirmed by statistics and conclusions from them, the next logical neprimenuli. One of the main rules practical psychologist - not to transfer to the interlocutor your problems, so any opinion about the other person served with the indispensable introductory momentum "I think" "I think", "in my opinion", etc.
-- Psychologist with neprimenuli has a more developed reflection, than representatives of other professions. Therefore, rarely confuses its attitude and its goalwhy sometimes may look cynical rational.
- Psychologist very familiar with how often people are wrong. Hence the psychologist more critical to feeling own innocencebelieving that it is just a feeling, and greater respect for the possible truth of the interlocutor.
-- One of the tools of the psychologist - working with perceptual positions. Therefore, the psychologist will rarely tell another what you would not like to hear it. For the same reason, not going to say that you can deploy in the opposite direction. For the same reason in conversation evaluates not only his position, but also how it is perceived by others. If a person does not, he is not a psychologist.
-- Psychologist avoids use of nominalization and tries to be accurate to a logical ligaments - he knows that it leads to errors.
- Psychologist - very tolerant creature. Imagine, comes to you and says that at night he goes out into the streets and killing old women with an axe because of 20 cents. You banish him with the words: "How dare you come to me, a scoundrel and a villain!"? Or work with him? If you work hard, you will treat him with hatred and contempt? Needless to say that if the customer is not to make friends, some good will come of little.
- Psychologist knows that the conflict is an extreme the means of solving issues fairly ineffective. Therefore provokes him only when clearly needed. For this reason, the psychologist never accused of evil intentions, even if such came to his head.
- The psychologist is well aware that nowith the exception of heavy pathologies, not evil desires. Just a different idea of good. Therefore, psychologists normally anybody respond negatively..."
PS Psychologists and psychiatrists - not the same thing.<