Why things don't work out the way you plan or want to!

[Смелый]

I long ago drew attention to the fact that when you mentally prepare for what the development of upcoming events, the result usually turns out the opposite. And the more energy you will invest in the development of the situation in your direction, garantirovanna you will get the opposite result. Over time, I began to experiment with this direction. That is, they began to represent and develop the mental opposite of the desired result. Sometimes it worked very well. Sometimes it doesn't. The results were discussed and analyzed with a friend who also uses this method in practice. Lots of other examples, but I will not bring them. Everyone can dig into his past and find something similar. I'll just describe what I have used in practice and it is here on the forum.
The case of the first.
In August of 2010 (I worked for a company as a sales Manager) we have on the Board on the wall was written about 8-9 companies are willing to purchase through us the goods on a decent amount. All stood stake. In one of the trades I have conducted with potential buyers negotiations, found out the prices of competitors, and a result of the unique circumstances that gave them an offer that was acceptable to all. The owner of our company (albeit a little later with his evil intuition, he began to suspect that not everything is pure, and although he had declared it to him, but the toad is second nature to him always wanting more), buyers, managers of the buyer and me with the second Manager of our company, as I carve out a solid chunk of "rollback", controlled only by me, but previously divided between the managers of both companies.
As time went on, but solutions were not. Then I closed the club Radionov asked for help. People are friendly and all have responded. (Members will recall this episode and more valuable for them this information). Joined more than a dozen devices and it worked on the execution of this my goal. Namely, the execution of the transaction I have prepared especially. Worked for about 10 days. The result was not. Off. After a few days, the owners of the company, the transaction with which we worked, stopped ringing and told that the product we will buy. And disappeared. A week later we learn that the supply of goods by our competitors in an officially higher price. Complete failure of the work. But! But....., for about one and a half to two months to realize all the other seven or eight transactions that we have written on the Board. The rise of an enormous amount. Which continued after the New Year. For new year's eve climb I got a bonus after the new year lifting of the relationship with the owner of the company deteriorated, he approached the situation when I arrived and immediately left to the competitors. Naturally, the premium for after the new year successful sales I received.
What happened here? Have poured a tremendous amount of power for execution of a particular transaction. It did not take place. But we're in this situation, not paying attention to the others, but THEY were WRITTEN ON the blackboard ON the WALL AND were CONSTANTLY IN SIGHT of OUR CONSCIOUSNESS AND SUBCONSCIOUSNESS. We just saw, but the energy of desire fulfillment was pumped with only one transaction, which ultimately did not pass. The energy of desire is SIMPLY BURNED. By the way, a girl named Natalia, who wanted at the time to work on a specific job. It reminds nothing to you? I write purely in poznavatelno sense.<

[Смелый]

The second case.
I worked for the competition three months, finally caught the topic and decided to make this business independently. A lot of things prepared. But he managed to speak at the forum and to climb with questions to Michael in the subject of the bracelets. The situation was described in the section of "Cannon - the last argument of kings!" He is now deleted at my request. Why? Later.
Trends in the development of my business stopped and I used this method gradually Matures in my head, but perfectly formulated once again by Michael on this forum: "When the trends of some process acquire a clearly negative course of events, I put information about this into the ears of as many people, and the situation turns the other way." This is the goal I set when painted a negative course of developments in my business. Now the business just started to work. Not the way I would like, but this is only the beginning. What will happen next - who knows. But don't need to wish me success. Except that, to achieve the opposite result.
So, the ATTACHMENT TO the EARS of AS many PEOPLE ABOUT BAD DEVELOPMENT is a WAY to RECTIFY the SITUATION!

[Маг.нет]

The statement of the problem may have been delivered (unconsciously) the task of "Explorer experience" (even if you do not use BZ), had been received, as a corrective of the situation result.
Sometimes tasks can the wind ask, a different algorithm, and the result is similar....
...or a problem with the water share....
...etc also lots of other things.


Sincerely, MAG.no

[Смелый]

a Statement of the problem may have been delivered to the (unconscious) goal to "guide to the experience" (even if you do not use BZ), had been received, as a corrective of the situation result.
Sometimes tasks can the wind ask, a different algorithm, and the result is similar....
...or a problem with the water share....
...etc also lots of other things.


Sincerely, MAG.no

I actually don't problems here shared in this case. Experience. As with many conversations. and, in principle, many agree with my conclusions. Even those who generally are not able to think much.
A living example to which ALL MEN respond.
Where it is slack, then there is not something done or just get home late. In mind that there is "dear" to drive, claims the scandal. The soul becomes sad. Come home all right.
Another option. Then there was moonlighting, or just in a good mood. Bought a bouquet of flowers and think about how you will MEET WELL HOUSE, almost Slippers at the doorstep and coffee in bed. The house expects "a bucket of cold water" - there's a scandal, like you're someone that told you someone saw, etc. the Result opposite to the expected.
Here I am talking about the fact that with our expectation of some developments or script, we get the opposite result. WE ARE MEN. Women basically impossible draw version of the script. It probably comes from the fact that they lead is the right hemisphere of the brain, in contrast to men whose leading hemisphere is mostly left.
Those who have developments happening in the described scenario - I propose to eksperimentirovat with little action, drawing myself mentally and wanting to get the result opposite to the desired.
For example, sometimes I did.
Monday had to go to the hospital and donate blood to the group definition and make the Bank a regular loan payment.
Friday evening and Monday morning was polpredstva yourself a company SolDat on blood donation in line in front of him in the hospital, it took two to three hours. Then the foremost of the people in the Bank office. Was planning to spend on all hours five. In the hospital I spent five minutes. In the Bank - about the same.
There is a moment. Important seriousness of purpose. It is impossible to think that I plan it in order to get the opposite result. All in all seriousness.<

[Смелый]

Now about why I asked to remove the topic of "Cannon - the last argument of kings". Again, thank you Michael! No kidding!
Michael on the pages of the forum described the case of his friends. The friend was seriously ill. Even too seriously. In the hospital he was told that he left to live three months. Then the man left the hospital and brought my medical history and every evening burnt one paper. And the disease has receded. Michael then rightly linked the illness with fixation to the situation in the information field. With the help of ink. And the change in health after the removal of information from the information field by burning history.
I considered my situation I described in the topic "Cannon - the last argument of kings" as recorded in the information space. So I asked her to remove, believing that even if "fixing" and left, then her caption: "Exhausted".
Of course, bringing to the public this technique is applied by me, you can ruin the desired result. But the fact is that no result is no longer required and everything is purple.
Therefore, it is likely useful to clean all the records with the goals and objectives. And physically pounichtozhat entries recorded personally unpleasant for any of us. For example: "return to duty" (recorded as the debtor), recovery of something (fixed condition of illness), etc.

[Дядя Вадя]

Bold
there is a saying: the map - tear loves
I think the meaning is clear

[Смелый]

Bold
there is a saying: the map - tear loves
I think the meaning is clear

Who on what studied, that could be useful. I - that would make sense of a situation and draw conclusions. And then apply and it is possible to share the lessons learned.
You - that would condemn others.

[Карил]

Why things don't work out the way you plan or want to!

Because I do not what you want really. When you work against the desire on the will and on terms, essentially going against his subconscious. Therefore, when in all seriousness don't want something, the subconscious mind, accustomed to do everything to not hit the target, just helps this goal to be achieved. The perversion of such an approach is rare I tell you.

In light of this, your example explains elementary.

The wife sees the gloomy husband (his teeth clenched, looking at the floor), which in actual fact waiting for the scandal. And no matter scared or starts to think "maybe he has problems at work", in General it is clear why there is no scandal.

Contracts - what could be simpler. The result really depends on how you speak, what tone, what words, all that subconsciously understands the source. And the result is the failure of the transaction.

I got to the Bank, no queues. As well as in time you can come to the moment of the approach of a bus or subway train. We go under the same route, certainly in the subconscious long ago deposited all the graphics work that only you can.

Soured relations with the head? Easier to get, for example when I work with had to quit my job to always find reason to blame the employer, not me. Quarreled and went with a pure soul, and think that tell me why to quit, good people, and so on. Early was absolutely sure that all employers are bad, salary raise do not want.

Simple advice do YOUR love and all will succeed and ideas tumble down the shaft, and the contract will be concluded. As soon as you think, even I have a little money, want more money - things will start to fall apart. Happiness is not in money.

[Смелый]

Why things don't work out the way you plan or want to!

Because I do not what you want really. When you work against the desire on the will and on terms, essentially going against his subconscious. Therefore, when in all seriousness don't want something, the subconscious mind, accustomed to do everything to not hit the target, just helps this goal to be achieved. The perversion of such an approach is rare I tell you.

In light of this, your example explains elementary.

Happiness is not in money.

It seems that it is really a perversion. So what? To do what?
To be honest, I didn't hear anything. Something you wanted to say or recommend?
I tried a lot of things. Many with whom I talked over and analyzed. (However, it is possible for me to answer that I don't with the talking, but others, alas no).
Came to the conclusion. (And now, I hardly have someone to talk sense). Books about success written by the devil.
In the film, recently heard a quote: "we defend justice, there is a problem - a betrayal of the one he protects!".
I invite all who read these lines. Povspominat you have made the good for other people and what you then repay.
Conclusions two.
First. If you did good and forgot about it, then nothing.
Second. If you keep this in mind and lightly think or expect good in their side - will definitely get something not good in return. Maybe not now. But through the years - is necessary.
Not in money happiness.
A little bit about it.
I'm sick of the arguments about happiness and the desire to achieve it. Happy man is a vegetable not able to really think and act. Everyone wants happiness, but few who receive, and received, not for long it keeps.
My strong belief in the following. To achieve just what you want can only be Enlightened. But here's the problem. They do not want. (Enlightened was neither Maharishi or Osho or SAI Baba, and the like).
Our desires, our Karma. They burden us and not let us leave this cursed planet called Earth. Without fulfilling their desires in this life, we are coming back here, that would complete the plan and come up with new yourself torture. (Someone very much in the Sky having fun looking at us. Possible bets). Only freed from all, we will be able to fly far. Don't believe? Even dying, we're worried about children, grandchildren, cats, dogs, half-full vodka etc Here and Soul hanging near that was dear in life.
It so happens that he thought about something and flew away. Very light, fleeting. And you forgot about it. And you've come to the realization of thought. When we plan something, we have this idea of weight, keeping to himself and does not let go for the implementation of the kind it was originally. We twist the idea in your head, weight, give her A F N O s T S for themselves. In the end, or get nothing, or something other or in another embodiment.
Thus, an easy idea of not having at the time of occurrence and volatilization is not of importance and is likely to be realized. The universe accepts it.
The idea that we twist, weight, gradually, the Universe realized how important it is for us. As an IDEALIZATION. Any idealization subject to correction. Through the lessons or tests. Either the results "on the mountain" opposite result. So why not use a technique in which you twist the head off a negative scenario, expect negativity? The universe takes this as another idealization, begins to correct in the opposite direction. Can it be that? In fact, the pendulum. The bottom point of the oscillation point of the fulfillment of desires. Enlightenment and departure to Heaven. All that is left and right is subject to correction. On the opposite result. So maybe there is a sense in experiments? To desire the opposite? (However, the idea that I'm willing, for that would come true contrast, dilutes the experiment fully, 100%.
Want to say - nonsense?
I spoke with the people who really threatened either death or drastic misfortune. And who avoided trouble. He was in such situations.
THEY WERE ALL EXPECTING BAD OUTCOME FOR THEMSELVES, THEY HAVE THIS BAD OUTCOME A THOUSAND TIMES EXPERIENCED IN DREAMS AND IN THOUGHTS. Trouble retreating. Waiting the happy end resolution of the critical situation - brings trouble.
Now for those who say that not in money happiness, etc.
Personally I would be stoked. That would not spread the infection.
To think so - though one million servings. Your problem.
BUT DO NOT BE CLEVER TO CARRY IT TO THE MASSES.
Our society is designed so that no money - anywhere. No need to idealize the money - it's a fact. You need to understand that money is just a means of getting something. Including elements of happiness in the form of who and as understood.
But life's a million times stuck in a situation where money is needed. And like it or not, but do you remember about them. If you're not a permanent resident of something, like the hospital Kashchenko.
And talking with a straight face, what not in money happiness - many do not mind.
Much more need to mind that would explain, then, what is happiness and what is happiness.
AND WHY MONEY BRINGS UNHAPPINESS? If this is the case, surely?<

[Malvina]

I also use receiving negative thinking to obtain the opposite result. Of course I have no answer why this happens.
Like taught to think positively, but I "attract" bad. I explained that with a negative development of events I have prepared, accepted, and maybe even figured out how to reduce the effects in this scenario of events. If formed according to the negative scenario, it happened as I thought. And I am calm, I foresaw it. But if all went well - as well, right, I played in the "negative thinking".
But think positively, imagine how all is well, then bummer. Explanation for themselves - has created excess capacity, dreaming. The last feeling - disappointment, resentment, dissatisfaction.
The main thing is not to play too. Try to think about both scenarios and not to bother, but sometimes desire is stronger, Oh stronger.

[Андрей Кабанков]

Possible third option.
When the outcome of an event is not evaluated as positive or negative and any option accepted easily.
It happens that the event,now seemingly negative,eventually leads to the development of events,the result of which is a positive result,and it could not be implemented without an adverse event.
In binase is observed more than once.

[Андрей Патрушев]

Malvina,
Have Bulanov (the book "Simoron first hand", "Burlan-Up") the technique of negative thinking called "samogon"...
And if a situation has developed in a negative way, You just do not "catch".

[Андрей Патрушев]

And to talk with a straight face, what not in money happiness - many do not mind.

Of course, "lots of intelligence" is necessary to understand what You were trying to convey... I agree with Caryl - real Business for the money not made.

[Смелый]

And to talk with a straight face, what not in money happiness - many do not mind.

Of course, "lots of intelligence" is necessary to understand what You were trying to convey... I agree with Caryl - real Business for the money not made.

It's all sitomania the brain and restoring the shadows on the fence.
Please answer specifically.
1. What is a "real Business"? What is this concept? Let's discuss.
2. What are "these Things"? Specifically. Without slavopedia. Let's discuss.
3. I have nothing to convey. I have a lot of things to convey. And if I write, I write things considered and analyzed, based on their and their friends experiences.
4. But very much do not love idle talk like this here: "Simple advice do YOUR love and all will succeed and ideas tumble down the shaft, and the contract will be concluded. As soon as you think, even I have a little money, want more money - everyone will fall apart." The feeling that the author does not live in our society, and on another planet.

[Просто_идущий]

What is a "real Business"?

... as I carve out a solid chunk of "rollback", controlled only by me, but previously divided between the managers of both companies. ...

...But is very much not like idle talk like this here: "Simple advice do YOUR love and all will succeed and ideas tumble down the shaft, and the contract will be concluded. As soon as you think, even I have a little money, want more money - everyone will fall apart." The feeling that the author does not live in our society, and on another planet.

Think so - Yes, a million servings. Your problem.
BUT do NOT be CLEVER to CARRY IT TO the MASSES.

[Смелый]

What is a "real Business"?

... as I carve out a solid chunk of "rollback", controlled only by me, but previously divided between the managers of both companies. ...

...But is very much not like idle talk like this here: "Simple advice do YOUR love and all will succeed and ideas tumble down the shaft, and the contract will be concluded. As soon as you think, even I have a little money, want more money - everyone will fall apart." The feeling that the author does not live in our society, and on another planet.

Think so - Yes, a million servings. Your problem.
BUT do NOT be CLEVER to CARRY IT TO the MASSES.

What can I say? Than further in wood, the thicker guerrillas. And then question to yourself: "But do not fool are you? And what are you doing here""

[Андрей Патрушев]

What is the real cause? It is very difficult to explain... Take for games (I mean, example ) of the same Carilo (forgive me Carilo for such liberty ): viewtopic.php?f=5&t=4343&p=74076&hilit= ... %81#p74076 or viewtopic.php?f=5&t=4255
Man draws with pleasure, to Express something within themselves that is not formulated in words, and is ready to share with others. Question - what is he painting? - To Express. There are people who like something there's something inside resonates and this helps them to prove some facet of yourself to yourself...
Carilo has recently decided to sell, something that draws, for money is a normal decision... Then there are several possible scenarios:
- he continues to draw to himself with pleasure, while its income from sales of these paintings will be quite a random value...
- he paints solely in order to sell, while what used to "cling" of others in his paintings, of the paintings disappear and no longer "touches", - sell stop (because he paints professionally and technically he's so-so)...
Options with sub-options, of course, plenty, but that two main lines, so to speak...
Can we call it Real Business? - Don't know (not enough data)... But it is unlikely he Carilo on this question is now a simple answer. In the present Case, in my opinion, should still include something that is most pronounced in our culture the words "Mission" and "Passion." Could this be the Real Deal, of course. Although, said Vladimir Semenovich: "these violent few"...

3. I have nothing to convey. I have a lot of things to convey.

Successful people, IMHO, are very sensitive to feedback and they are never ashamed to learn...

And if I write, I write things considered and analyzed, based on their and their friends experiences.

"The main thing is not the facts, but their interpretation" (Winston Churchill)
Of course, for success, many factors are important and their perception of the system, but, in particular, the important role played by the level of generalization...<

[Андрей Патрушев]

4. But very much do not love idle talk like this here: "Simple advice do YOUR love and all will succeed and ideas tumble down the shaft, and the contract will be concluded. As soon as you think, even I have a little money, want more money - everyone will fall apart." The feeling that the author does not live in our society, and on another planet.

Of course, to give advice immoral... But this does not mean that these words are idle talk, they're just "not from around here and not taken so there went"...

[АнтонБ]

I also use receiving negative thinking to obtain the opposite result. Of course I have no answer why this happens.

I have also this method works somehow better than positive. Most likely it comes from the so-called "grazing situation." When thinking through a certain way of some of all the possible development options of the future because of it, the energy of the young trees are consumed by and it is de-energized. The result is things are moving on for some other more energy-filled thread.
The variant and the opposite energy of the desired branch of the future.
Individually there's one in the more practice...

[Маг.нет]

most Likely it comes from the so-called "grazing situation." When thinking through a certain way of some of all the possible development options of the future because of it, the energy of the young trees are consumed by and it is de-energized. The result is things are moving on for some other more energy-filled thread.
The variant and the opposite energy of the desired branch of the future.
Individually there's one in the more practice...

I agree with this explanation too, but I will add, here it is in polarity to influence the situation, while it is possible to use both options at once. The fact that the adjustment for the negative outcome, automatically includes the mechanism of "subconscious fear of" well, at least as to "fool" your mind. And the mechanism of fear is energy absorbing, and that's why there is a "grazing" of energy (probability) of negative events, then, if you have sufficient grazing remains "low" form, which can be adjusted to fill the positive outcome, sapita it. "Eat" harmful - to fill the void with joy of use.
"No matter how bad, in General, all will be well."


Sincerely, MAG.no

[Карил]

What is the real cause? It is very difficult to explain... Take for games (I mean, example ) of the same Carilo (forgive me Carilo for such liberty ): viewtopic.php?f=5&t=4343&p=74076&hilit= ... %81#p74076 or viewtopic.php?f=5&t=4255
Man draws with pleasure, to Express something within themselves that is not formulated in words, and is ready to share with others. Question - what is he painting? - To Express. There are people who like something there's something inside resonates and this helps them to prove some facet of yourself to yourself...
Carilo has recently decided to sell, something that draws, for money is a normal decision... Then there are several possible scenarios:
- he continues to draw to himself with pleasure, while its income from sales of these paintings will be quite a random value...
- he paints solely in order to sell, while what used to "cling" of others in his paintings, of the paintings disappear and no longer "touches", - sell stop (because he paints professionally and technically he's so-so)...

Join.

Draw because it is fun. Art, anyone think this is a figurative perception of the world. When you feel it in every "cell", each "nerve". I recently realized that I could write poems, books, anything. And I think, if liberated, will be able for example to dance or be an actor. If you remove the belief that I bear stepped on an ear will begin to write music. But life is one you have to choose.

Like my work, because they can be called art. Yes, the weak, naive, whatever, but they are not empty. In our lives too much logic, planning, and many have lost themselves. Live for the money, some imposed by the advertising of goods, he was such. That's why you need the phone for 30 thousand rubles? Living in a fog, chasing illusive goals, running around like a squirrel in a wheel and suddenly see something unusual. A ten-year girl with the voice of an Opera singer (on Youtube) or the wild Avatar. And the world stops, the run is terminated, I understand that there is in this world something except money and run. Understand that it is possible to live differently, to be here now, be yourself. And I want to keep this state, to take a piece as a souvenir. Buy a CD or a picture, or save the link to favorite website.

I want to add that on the technique work but need long time to learn, years. The question is choosing. You can learn Flemish seven-layer painting and to make copies of famous works, or to start writing still lives, now the realism is in demand, and is very good. But it won't be the same, it is NOT their job. The distinction is subtle, but obvious.<

[Смелый]

Karil, I'm sorry if I offended you!
Andrew, too!
But I managed to get myself in expectation of the next.
Here it was not discussed.
Second, I so obtained. So well in fact it turns out and some of my friends. But they are not engaged in practices that are far from esoteric and not make such analysis, and I never thought about the connection between negative feelings on a particular situation and the absence of after this negative result.
It was the feeling of certain of their own moral deformity. But the facts, their analysis - an obstinate thing. I was scared at first to do so. Tried on the little things. Asked friends to try to do the same. The results don't want to talk.
And so I now feel better that I'm not alone. There are others, namely the environment involved in its development, able to analyze, observe and experiment. And with similar views.
Now, why is this happening.
Absolutely every person has the so-called energy-space or "VIP" (virtual space). I already somewhere here wrote about it. If you stretch your hands in different directions and begin to rotate in the vertical and horizontal planes, the tips of his fingers draw a kind of sphere, a globe. This is the VIP area. The space within.
If each of you will present before him any of the things or items that you like or you love, they will have a specific location within the zone VIP, and to be around. The so-called area of "Good".
Imagining the opposite of disgusting (snakes, spiders, Scorpions, etc.), you will notice that they are in a certain area, the so-called "Bad". And its location is different from the zone "Good." That is, the two zones are in different places in space V. I. p. area.
Working through any life situation, we are not consciously (perhaps this makes the Subconscious mind), the end result put in one of the zones. But there are only two.
By placing desired to obtain the result, for example, in the area Well, we keep dumping there energy. Once the area is completely filled (and only then), it closes (for this action). Some "sealing". No "grazing" is "sealing". That is a good scenario took place. But it was held in your virtual space. In the area of VIP. The negative scenario was rolled out for limits of the virtual space and operates in your life.
If we do the opposite, drawing a negative conclusion, it is not always impossible for the following reason.
As we have seen, the result only occurs (and only then) when there is complete filling of energy zones "Bad", it sealing. But the energy in full man gives the Subconscious. And here it is on the lookout. Maybe it's because of certain settings or programs, including possible Karmic, finds that you some good thing, object, result, not put in General, or at this time in particular. And it will make every effort that would need to seal the area "Bad" the amount of energy didn't get there. And area not sealed. And is not much. Like this. There may be other explanations. But I'm 100% satisfied with this.
Energy. It's all about.
Need to allocate a lot of energy in thinking or thinking about the negative scenario. Up to shout, to tell others about the pending collapse you (they have, in their VIP area you are placed in the area "Bad" and also receive recharge energy. It is possible, even joyful, but still in the area "Bad"). That is, the more energy is allocated in the virtual space in the "Bad area", the more chances to be realized in real life positive results.
What is not a pendulum. The left well. To the right is bad. Or Vice versa. That shakes in different directions. Here and there. Here and there.<

[Просто_идущий]

And then, the question to themselves: "not A fool are you? And what are you doing here""

Bold, You is not "fool" You sometimes uh .... agressive!

Karil, I'm sorry if I offended you!
Andrew, too!

+100500

[Андрей Патрушев]

Karil, I'm sorry if I offended you!Andrew, too!

"Resentment is for the weak and sick" Master technique NNO "and You will be happy"
With regard to the processing of situations through "negative thinking", then Bulanov (see above) on this subject very simply and clearly written and, most importantly, provide a concrete methodology.
Good Luck Running!

[Андрей Патрушев]

If you remove the belief that I can't carry a tune in a wheelbarrow.

I naively thought to myself until I met a wonderful teacher and person Shapovalova Natalia