I feel that it would be necessary to explain what we did here.
Core beliefs about myself, about the safety or, conversely, the dangers of this world and about the relations between people are laid in early childhood, basically up to 4 years. At this time the child is in percent with respect to learns more than in the rest of my life. It is literally like a sponge, absorb new knowledge, mainly from parents or(and) other significant adults. However, this process continues for the entire period of childhood. During childhood critical thinking is weak, but at any age, one of the most remarkable features of the brain is an outstanding ability to generalize. The difference between people in how and what they use this ability. Some make outstanding discoveries, others (while, however, not infrequently, the same
) to claim that "all around bastards"...
In childhood we revered parents, however, and requirements, the strictest. For example, the child wanted to do something to please their parents - tried and looked forward to their positive response. Of course he did it to the best of their abilities and ideas: "mother give me a kiss and, of course, Yuri, look, as we cut cleverly your Fox"
Parents are people too,
and often their reactions to their children's actions from life - health and mood, and naturally their beliefs (which in the majority were formed in early childhood). Sometimes - scary to think - even an ordinary revenge on the other parent (e.g., mother loves her son, but always bad when it speaks of throwing them to the Pope and other men). And, welcome to, our reaction is limited to listing what is and what is not done and explaining what and how to do next time to get. And all this kindly, with love and understanding, where will this lead the child in the future... But often the reaction is accompanied by the angry phrases in the spirit of antiaffirmative: "Well, why do you always so clumsy? You never get! You only think about the pleasures!" etc etc. Sometimes (depending on the intensity of the emotion) rather than once, in another case, similar episodes are superimposed and reinforce each other (air conditioning experience in Gropu). Thus, instead of receiving praise and approval of condemnations, the child is taught to believe in belief, which he demonstrates by his behavior an adult, that is, the child begins to believe what an adult believes that a child ... . Moreover, if for an adult it may just be a random episode due to his mood and physical condition, and his response relates exclusively to a particular case, the child, with its remarkable ability to generalize, and, sadly, thanks to the deep love and trust to a significant adult, learns to believe in this conviction for the rest of my life. And, as we above noticed, people are so fused with this belief that is was not ready to understand that it is only one day a learned response, about someone's reaction to a single act of his in this life. These beliefs are fairly easy to detect (of course, at first, and then gradually and
) the so-called "quantifiers of community": all, none, all, none, every, any, always, never, etc.. Yes, when You hear those words - "quantifiers community", then rest assured - they are hiding some kind of belief. Therefore, when You encounter any limiting belief You then just relax and ask yourself: "When was the first time I learned to believe in this belief "..."? That it happened to me that made me believe in ...?" Pretty soon (maybe immediately, maybe during the day) You will receive a response in the form of sentimental memories. Try to figure out and fix for themselves - who, in fact, these beliefs about what single act they formed and does it make sense (useful?) continue to generalize them to the rest of his life. Even such a simple procedure is able to greatly weaken the impact of negative beliefs on Your further life...
Good Luck Running!<
I am glad that there is a lot of interesting))) I Will practice 
(at work, I work with money and I'm to the point I'm afraid to make a mistake and transfer too much that the shoulders, forearms much driving) How best to formulate the goal, to feel calmer and more confident? 
I'm asked - what's behind the fact that "nothing happens" and not what to do to avoid this.
Maybe my insecurity?
Now, I think it will fit and approval of E. Coue, "every day of my life, in all respects better and better and better." 
Is that right?))) And the goal then is to learn to notice their success" ? So? 