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Somehow when discussing the correct wording for Rainbow-Arc our favorite ZHSL asked, in my opinion, absolutely brilliant question: "Guys, and who knows what all should want?"
At that time, I have not found the answer for yourself (and now it's not), but tried to approach him. Apparently, this is one of the eternal questions...
And who that thinks about it?

Psychologists, for example, believe that the happiness of man should be quite a bit:
1. Day-to-day to feel reliability and safety.
2. To get attention and share it with others.
3. To feel in control of the events of his life.
4. To feel some tension and excitement from life, to avoid boredom.
5. Sometimes get different pleasures and to feel that life is a pleasure.
6. To have a close intimate relationship, at least with one person.
7. To feel their connection and affiliation with a certain community.
8. To have the time and the place for solitude.
9. To have the respect and recognition of dignity.
10. To feel some competence and have certain achievements.

The full realization of what is the soul (each individually, of course).
Eternal youth and beauty (well, maybe I'm a bit bent )
Eternal life.
Actually, I'm modest, but I have a principle - if you want, you want to complete, so if you ask, many, anything but give.

But otherwise, I subscribe under all your points, Andrew.
Total is 13 points, who said it was a lot. This is normal.

1. Mastery
2. To achieve their goals
3. To know yourself

Андрей Патрушев wrote:for person, it is necessary very little:

Ten thousand million.

"What they have to want".. and in your opinion, this question should be the only answer? Maybe it's different for everybody?

actually I precita Asimov
but he had such a story Azazel was called...

рыжая wrote:Eternal life.

that would be a very strict test....

Eternal life.

et looking where. If in this world, but vryatli want

Андрей Патрушев wrote: ...
Psychologists, for example, believe that the happiness of man should be quite a bit:
1. - 10.
...

Wow, a little )))

Somewhere I read a comprehensive concept of happiness - something like "when is enough enough".. No, not once, but briefly.

And about a bit:
Necessary not enough, not enough happens a lot, and a lot happens that will not find it.

has meaning only development, i.e. movement.
if you get stuck somewhere forever = HELL.

To be master of the mi-and-and-Ira BU-ha-ha (Dr. Evil smiley)

Actually happiness is a state, and not the amount of money or something. As the yogis do, are in this state, with no family, no familiar human attributes, which they call "happiness"

оуаакун wrote:

Андрей Патрушев wrote:for person, it is necessary very little:

Ten thousand million.

The rich also cry...

оуаакун wrote:

Андрей Патрушев wrote:for person, it is necessary very little:

Ten thousand million.

Milen money and a bowl of soup!

Экко wrote:Actually, happiness is a state, and not the amount of money or something. As the yogis do, are in this state, with no family, no familiar human attributes, which they call "happiness"

Yes, it's one of the answers to the Earth - "Nothing want to not have to."

The case still May be that in spite of all the efforts to get interest and enjoyment from what should bring, and even brought once before the fun, and you can just go outside and enjoy life, and even when there are happy moments, they will be experienced as well, I mean to be positive emotional response.
I here somehow itself the state of the (long ago) have been permanently moved to it, when it is impossible to experience this happiness thing, right now, here on Alfaria hold, helps. Work on yourself does not work practically.

ECCO
I personally helps spirituality, Advaita. Eckhart Tolle - very good writer "Power point"is a very effective book, and then his sutras,silence speaks. do not look at the phrases, I look FOR THEM, you feel. but to overdo identity is not necessary. tried each day to read - I feel surpluses. then start practice - try as often as possible to feel your energy field (where this exercise is described)

Concerning the main question - what about I want to live a more fulfilling isnew that is called to a higher energy level, level of high vibration with all the consequences! have to strive for every person the meaning of life in this experience

Eckhart well done, one of the most favorite authors.

I want only peace absolute ( I'm psycho and react appropriately)))))

Prosperity!
Hotz

рыжая wrote: Eternal youth and beauty (well, maybe I'm a bit bent )
Eternal life.

you still are very lucky if you have a item numero times performed in conjunction with item numero two. for,if you have eternal life...I can only imagine if the average citizen of our country,for 60 years,feels like a refrigerator discarded in a landfill,and clearly knows the path to the clinic and the pharmacy,what can hurt in 1200 years,and how to look?as a druid of the film about Snoopy and Obelix?back mushrooms to grow?
and I,for some reason,it seems that eternal life is much.on the contrary,it is necessary to die ,on time and properly ...to death have to prepare,in either case.we need to start as early as possible

Нетрезвый Сурдопереводчик wrote:

рыжая wrote: Eternal youth and beauty (well, maybe I'm a bit bent )
Eternal life.

you still are very lucky if you have a item numero times performed in conjunction with item numero two. for,if you have eternal life...I can only imagine if the average citizen of our country,for 60 years,feels like a refrigerator discarded in a landfill,and clearly knows the path to the clinic and the pharmacy,what can hurt in 1200 years,and how to look?as a druid of the film about Snoopy and Obelix?back mushrooms to grow?
and I,for some reason,it seems that eternal life is much.on the contrary,it is necessary to die ,on time and properly ...to death have to prepare,in either case.we need to start as early as possible

Like in the movie "the Green Mile", for example.

Who knows, you might get lucky.

"Our desires are hiding in what we have..."

I do not quite agree. Rather, what we have, but few . No car, but got the legs for movement. Here, the machine not as a thing but as a way of transportation.
"What would you like?"Health, wealth, love, free time and, as the common denominator - the ability to enjoy it all. The first four have all, in different quantities. But the fifth, alas, is tied to comparison and a qualitative characteristic. "Happiness" from the purchase of cars will be clouded by the fact that all around own "best auto brand"(for example so-so silly). So, if we talk about universal composes, the ability to enjoy the present moment is the most important. IMHO.

One woman worked for many years in a hospice. Her duty - the relief of dying patients. Thus, she literally was with them the last days and hours. From my observations, she made up a rating of main regrets people approached the edge of life


The 5 most common regrets of the dying:

1. I regret that I didn't have the courage to live a life that is right for me, not the life expected of me by others.
This is the most common regret among men. When people realize that their life is almost over, they can look back and easily see which of their dreams were not realized. Most people hardly tried to fulfill even half of their dreams and had to die knowing that it was only by choice that they did or did not do. It is very important to try to implement at least some of your basic desires in life. From the moment when you lose your health, it is too late to do something. Health brings the freedom that very few realize, until they lose it.

2. I'm sorry I worked so hard.
The feeling was every male patient. They missed their youth and in their relationships. Some women also expressed this regret. But since most of them were of the older generation, they mostly did not earn money for the family. All of the men deeply regretted that he spent most of his life on the monotonous work for getting livelihood. By simplifying your lifestyle, you can reduce the requirements of the income that you think you need. Creating more space in your life, you become happier and more open to new possibilities.

3. I'm sorry that I didn't have the courage to Express your feelings.
Many people suppressed their feelings in order to maintain certain relationships with others. As a result, they accepted a mediocre existence and never became what they would like to see yourself. The emergence of many diseases was associated with experiencing feelings of bitterness and resentment. We can't control the reactions of others. Although initially people may react to changes you make in the relationship, is not desirable way for you, in the end it raises the relationship to a new healthier level. Best one way or another to eliminate unhealthy relationships from your life.

4. I'm sorry I haven't been in touch with their friends.
Often these people do not even realize all of the benefits of maintaining contact with their old friends until their deaths remained a few weeks, and have not always been able to find them. Many were so caught up in their own lives that allowed their friendship for many years to pass by them. There were many deep regrets about the fact that their friendship was not given much time and effort, which this friendship deserved. Everyone misses their friends when they die. Any person that leads an active lifestyle, tend to underestimate the value of friendships. But when you stand on the threshold of death, the material side of life lose their meaning. Of course, people want their financial Affairs were in the greatest possible order. But no money and no status to maintain ultimately its value. They want to bring some benefit to someone you love. But usually they are already too sick and tired to cope with this problem.

5. I'm sorry that I'm not allowed(a) to be more happy.
This kind of regret was surprisingly common. Many do not fully understand that their happiness is a matter of choice. They were subordinated to the habits and established ideas. They were in captivity ‘comfort’ traditional way of life. Because of fear of change they pretend to others and to ourselves that were satisfied with their lives.

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