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What you mean the holiday?

Standard - the cheerful company, alcohol, relaxation, cake, various delicacies, pathardi, fireworks, gifts.

But what if I don't drink? That is, fundamentally and forever. The ratio of I to alcohol as a drug. From marijuana and heroin to the rest of the people out too happy, but that doesn't mean anything. And as far as I know marijuana compared to alcohol is safer even. In General I do not drink. And it turns out all holiday, and I'm fucking sober. Before I could afford a holiday I had.

The second point - the food. Well sweet can be replaced by fruits, meat - fish and seafood. But the key is not the question. Imagine here a table with all sorts of Goodies. My attitude is - well food so what. Hungry ate, fed the same as you have? That is a must have once rarely say to try marbled meat or caviar? And again, Yes delicious, but a feast where? Delicious food you could buy any day, just for myself.

Personally, I have a holiday comes, when something happens. For example, I very long tried to start writing a poem. And could not bring myself to do it. This fear of the unknown rolled, any opportunity to overcome. And then one day, had written a quatrain. Got just a sea of pleasure.

Or Go. Lost four games in a row (4 hours of play), felt stupid sheep. And then I pulled myself together, changed the style of the game. As a result of winning. Also joy was midnight I couldn't sleep. The following days showed that I in General began to play stronger - another joy.

When I first turned lucid dream. Was also a holiday. It was an amazing feeling, as if discovered the new world.

I am also pleased when someone could help. Or donate because he himself to by not. People happy and I'm with him.

But from year to year to celebrate a birthday or what ever the red date on the calendar no joy do not feel. What is interesting in the chiming clock or new year's speech of the President. A family holiday so every year the same people, the same stories and the same jokes. And the eighth of March? Flowers, candy and attention. But the ninth is not a holiday. Well birthday? Don't know about others, but a birthday party for me more of a reason to draw a line. What I achieved or Vice versa - is not reached. But no pleasure from the fact that he's gotten older (and live less than) do not.

Maybe I do not understand? Can grow old is cool? Or these jokes are the same, have the joy to call unearthly? <

Most people live drab ,monotonous life.
240 days a year for the same chair in the same place...
Days like this make at least some diversity in their lives.
Relaxation from everyday work to the same standard.
New Year same me seems strange.Artificially made-up day,nothing in nature is special about this day is not happening.
On the eighth of March a lot of live plants deprived of life,their corpses given to women from whom they eventually die.
Around you can find a lot awkward,if you look from the side

I think we should try to make your life filled with every day and giving people that you care about the holiday not only on certain days.

This,of course, advise is to make life full,but not so easy to follow this advice.
For myself, I decided that doing their own thing,which, to some extent, is creative,has surrounded himself with people with whom I am interested in working,and just near.
Travel a lot. Open to everything new.Then life is interesting, artificial holidays do not really need.

A holiday can be a lot of going for in-hand with his beloved,Missa motorcycle kupeessa in the waterfall,and any other,as the festival is inside and not outside.
You can just raise a head under the rain,not hide from it,to feel the drops falling and rolling down my face,to feel that you're alive that we can all get a feel for it-and here it is already a holiday

and someone is enough to think and understand that it is a holiday