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Resistance. What to do with it?

Posted: Mon Apr 14, 2008 14:20
by Развивающийся
Forum, asked a question.
On a conscious level I really want change and are trying to do, but very sensual, this fear, doubts, relative to the chosen path, only focus and now you Bang and knocks, you start to read, but learn only bits and pieces of information. The performance from this is very low.

I think this is the next stage of resistance to change, which must be passed. If you continue to follow your reasoning, another question arises, it turns out that resistance is like a spiral, passed any stage, they continue to do again and suggest it.

What to do or not to do? Please share experience, thoughts.

Re: Resistance. What to do with it?

Posted: Mon Apr 14, 2008 15:09
by Андрей Патрушев
Развивающийся wrote:Forum, asked a question.
On a conscious level I really want change and are trying to do, but very sensual, this fear, doubts, relative to the chosen path, only focus and now you Bang and knocks, you start to read, but learn only bits and pieces of information. The performance from this is very low.

I think this is the next stage of resistance to change, which must be passed. If you continue to follow your reasoning, another question arises, it turns out that resistance is like a spiral, passed any stage, they continue to do again and suggest it.

What to do or not to do? Please share experience, thoughts.
A familiar pattern...
May notice also that the further the resistance is becoming stronger and, I would say, more sophisticated... achievements briskly increase CDA, but this thing is a serious obstacle to progress.
In the early stages helped me a lot the book of Satprem Sri Aurobindo. Perhaps, still I bring these ideas to life...

Re: Resistance. What to do with it?

Posted: Mon Apr 14, 2008 16:07
by Евгений Кош
Развивающийся wrote:Forum, asked a question.
On a conscious level I really want change and are trying to do, but very sensual, this fear, doubts, relative to the chosen path, only focus and now you Bang and knocks, you start to read, but learn only bits and pieces of information. The performance from this is very low.

I think this is the next stage of resistance to change, which must be passed. If you continue to follow your reasoning, another question arises, it turns out that resistance is like a spiral, passed any stage, they continue to do again and suggest it.

What to do or not to do? Please share experience, thoughts.
I was very much "stunned" the book Kryon the Journey home.
There's about a question of "belief" all very well "screwed" :)

life - a variety of options. I had a long period when I felt I was doing everything wrong.. then felt that doing so only certain things.. all the while looking his way.
even now I can say that I found the road but it turned out to be the field because I saw - you can go anywhere.. for your path - always with you ( in you). this was a try a lot that develops , choosing what works ( or understand). Just.. for some reason I always knew I'd find your way and not particularly grieved over the fact that I couldn't do it. ( and now does not work).
about the changes - always talking and talking.. I figured if I started given the changes that I wanted and a lot probably would and Blizzard did not help.. But comparing yourself to the retrospective 6 months - wow what an interesting change.. but in retrospect, 1 year - wow!..
Now I'm afraid of change less and less. the absence of work - not afraid we all are able to do anything to sell their work.
the lack of money - so work know how :) how much do you need money? :) lack of friends - hmm.. if I'm learning to love yourself, then surely there is a world of people who are also learning ( and learned) this :)? why be afraid? death? :) - tell in your own words (netsolve) excerpt from the book of Tihoplav .. "One of the great doctors of the Russian Academy of Sciences any :) quantum mechanic in his 70's with the penny years decided to be baptized..
when he was baptized, the priest asked :
- You believe in God?
what he oftamil:
- I do not believe in God, I just KNOW what it is :).
"
Thinking about all this - just fall off the causes of anxiety on the coming changes.. For when you promote its development - you're not just you.. most will do what you need(what you correctly), You will find what you want (what you really need), it would seem in a difficult situation You will be a very simple solution (this understand - then).. and the complexity of the trials has fallen to You is no more than You are willing to take ( without exaggeration).

read Kryon, if you want.<

Posted: Mon Apr 14, 2008 19:05
by Развивающийся
Андрей Патрушев wrote:Familiar picture...
May notice also that the further the resistance is becoming stronger and, I would say, more sophisticated... achievements briskly increase CDA, but this thing is a serious obstacle to progress.
In the early stages helped me a lot the book of Satprem Sri Aurobindo. Perhaps, still I bring these ideas to life...
You are right about the importance and sophistication. Sometimes the feeling is just fail. A bit increased and is moments such contempt for the people you communicate with, but I'm very glad I started it deliberately to understand it, and early on the behavior was affected.
Евгений Кош wrote:life is a myriad of options. I had a long period when I felt I was doing everything wrong.. then felt that doing so only certain things.. all the time I was finding my way...
And I thought that people chose the path to him, how he chose the road and go without hesitation in the part of the chosen path, well, plus-minus. It turns out not correctly thought. From this, even easier somehow felt that I am not alone sometimes you start to question and "resist". :oops:

Andrew and Eugene, thank you for your support and for the books!
Have already downloaded with Cuba, read.

Posted: Mon Apr 14, 2008 20:36
by Валдем
Евгений Кош wrote:even now can say that I found the road but it turned out to be the field because I saw - you can go anywhere.. for your path - always with you ( in you).
I fully agree and support az

Posted: Tue Apr 15, 2008 8:12
by Евгений Кош
Развивающийся wrote:
Евгений Кош wrote:life is a myriad of options. I had a long period when I felt I was doing everything wrong.. then felt that doing so only certain things.. all the time I was finding my way...
And I thought that people chose the path to him, how he chose the road and go without hesitation in the part of the chosen path, well, plus-minus. It turns out not correctly thought. From this, even easier somehow felt that I am not alone sometimes you start to question and "resist". :oops:

Andrew and Eugene, thank you for your support and for the books!
Have already downloaded with Cuba, read.
Yesterday I forgot to write an important :)
At a certain point of development ( I have this happen quite in a short period .. so I believe.. maybe more in the past I developed just don't consider it a development).. so at certain point, the system ( life, the world, the universe, karma.. whatever else you can think to name everything around us) begins to release those situations that a person needs to survive.. and reset it starts already at an accelerated pace, ie - instead of waiting for the scheduled dates.. as if to say .. this is also called an "expedited processing of karma"... I myself have experienced what it is.. this is when all one after the other in a very dense regime began to crawl out.. have not had time even to think what "cover" yesterday "the hole" and today crawled new.. full PE.. Then the smart people suggested - Oh! so at you began ! system like you noticed. :)
I call it the test of Faith.. this is the period when you're doing what I believe in.. and you dump at an accelerated pace that had accumulated for you :) and there are periods when you think "something can not do.. because I try and TP.. and I got worse and worse" :)) (such as in the joke about the moose :) )
In addition .. any ideas and methods you need to test.. ( so called control).<

Posted: Tue Apr 15, 2008 12:03
by Развивающийся
Eugene Kosh

It turns out, the system resets only that it would be, i.e. the future or not?.
And with the past, is that possible?

I fit the description of what happened and is happening with me for past moments.
Have experienced many of the old situation, so to say awareness is not the mind and the senses, that was just replaced, just like the tune to the new, and here you even some crap.

How to feel and understand that there is a recycling of the future? Are there any common "traits", so to speak?

Posted: Tue Apr 15, 2008 12:31
by Евгений Кош
in my experience - pulled out everything that is not resolved within an ACCEPTABLE option to experience was considered closed.
I first got all the old-unresolved therefore, to remove questions.
he had to close.
then he began to see the rope leading to the old.. and understand.. or I will choose what next to pull, and to me it just stolknut but maybe not my best moment.. this was chosen and he pulled and unraveling of the decisions ( with checks of course on all sides.. to be able to classify that shut down.. at least shut down with the potential and vision that with here and now)

Posted: Tue Apr 15, 2008 12:33
by Евгений Кош
by the way - most of the "ropes" decided the best way for yourself..
just imagine that if not pulled now to just a couple or three months would be for me not really better than it is now decided.

Posted: Tue Apr 15, 2008 12:42
by Евгений Кош
Развивающийся wrote:Eugene Kosh
How to feel and understand that there is a recycling of the future? Are there any common "traits", so to speak?
this integrated approach..
you are simultaneously processed and the past and the present and future.
Solving the issues of the past in the best manner for you, you will change your future in better way.. - that is, processed future.
at such moments, you become clairvoyant :) because understanding (even in General terms) what will you not addressing the here and now "old rope" you see the way his future.. and solving the issue - you change it :)

Posted: Tue Apr 15, 2008 13:55
by Развивающийся
Eugene I understand that You wanted to say about the processing of the future. :D

Developing, and gaining new knowledge, the feeling of here and now becomes more comprehensive, is changing its attitude to the past, but the future from the first two change itself.

It turns out, this process will go a lifetime. I thought, well, how can you go your whole life this way, because hard, but that's my attitude, changing it, I can perceive new knowledge, to realize, again, "resist" is not as critical as I do it. I myself therefore start to create obstacles!!! Now I think I began to understand the meaning of the phrase that heaven and hell can only be in our soul and we create it ourselves.
Thanks for the reply. az

Posted: Wed Apr 16, 2008 0:33
by Guest
And conversely, I've noticed that life around me has become "to spin", ie a situation the best way for me, fate throws the most advantageous and convenient without much effort on my part, just amazing, I don't know what it involves. And it all started to happen when I finally decided on their "way", so to speak, and before that life I was very "pinal", apparently customized for this solution, cut off any extra options.

Posted: Wed Apr 16, 2008 0:36
by Умка
Anonymous wrote:But I noticed that life began around me "spin", ie a situation the best way for me, fate throws the most advantageous and convenient without much effort on my part, just amazing, I don't know what it involves. And it all started to happen when I finally decided on their "way", so to speak, and before that life I was very "pinal", apparently customized for this solution, cut off any extra options.
Sorry, :oops: this is my message was. :)

Posted: Wed Apr 16, 2008 8:57
by Евгений Кош
Умка wrote:
Anonymous wrote:But I noticed that life began around me "spin", ie a situation the best way for me, fate throws the most advantageous and convenient without much effort on my part, just amazing, I don't know what it involves. And it all started to happen when I finally decided on their "way", so to speak, and before that life I was very "pinal", apparently customized for this solution, cut off any extra options.
Sorry, :oops: this is my message was. :)
Duck is naturally :)
We are talking about resistances (they "spoke in the wheel" or "bunch of problems" they "accelerated processing karma" they "neglected problems") ( of course I'm surprised that there are people who immediately start without resistance of the "old burden".. but this is probably the ones who before that, he lived - perfectly. otherwise will not say.)
And - of course! over time it starts to decide the best way ( for fans of its benefits say - it's not what you think:) "the best way" is ALL versions of the entities involved in the "case" is one that possibly suits everyone and you in particular... usually without the "development" people do not see these options, and stupid like donkeys mooing about extremes such as "execute not pardon" .. bothering only one comma and two clauses).
Freeing problems to become more space for joy and co-creation :)
The main thing is not to sozvezdija (ie - you have to be on the alert).. because man by nature is dualistic.. and our second part is not sleeping..sooner or later will show their "quirks" and she's with us until we - the people :)