SOS!!! Where to live?

Лилка · Post by **Лилка** » Tue Oct 16, 2007 23:13

Again I welcome everyone without exception!!!

Ask for advice...
Can't find it cherished, what would you like to do with my life... after a year and a half with a degree, completing pre-University, can not find that interesting, and realized that I didn't...

but screw him, if only he knew what you really want...

(I'm afraid to say, even the 3 course Conductor didn't help... of course they don't have for sure, but the hope was still...)

absolutely not chuvstvu cravings for anything...
understand that this is where I should be... but in the answer SILENCE... is it really so hopeless........?

In advance I thank all who responded...!!!!

Pavel · Post by **Pavel** » Wed Oct 17, 2007 3:13

Sorry, Lily!
With the "Guide" I also realized that the work that I'm still in high school chose, not for me. Drives after Andrea and I no longer dwell on it and quietly began to perceive it.

I found a way to calm and joy to go to work, so she is in love with his boss: a woman 15 years older than me.

Like you and someone at work, even if you already have a favorite person. As always a pleasure to see this sweet face every day even under such working circumstances.

PS
But there is another option: to throw in the towel and dump in the pristine wilderness of nature.

Лилка · Post by **Лилка** » Wed Oct 17, 2007 7:44

Pavel wrote:'ll Love you for someone at work

original...

really afraid of any kind and light feeling does not override the sustainable reaction of rejection arising from there.

Pavel wrote:But there is another option: to throw in the towel

and this is interesting...

... I actually did a couple of days ago.... truth in the wilderness will probably not

Post by **Андрей Патрушев** » Wed Oct 17, 2007 9:16

The answer usually lies in the deep childhood. If you ask 4-year-old child what he(she) will get a very confident answer. If to ask another - what's there in this profession like, it becomes clear the approximate direction for my future profession. Here You go, Lily, povspominat who would You like to be the child of why what You loved to play, why.

Павел Тролль · Post by **Павел Тролль** » Wed Oct 17, 2007 11:23

Personally I have to say that my path in life is the right and best for me, and all the UPS and downs that I went through was necessary for me and I created them. All these events need to take lessons, experience and use them. But at the same time I said to myself that everything is doing great and is formed in accordance with what I want from life and what God has placed in me and the life\power itself leads me to what I need and what I desire, this will create the necessary meetings and conditions. I did it including listening to the Conductor.

And you know, everything is happening. Work I have a wonderful, new, circle of friends is very decent in all other cases, all good is formed, even if I pull the curls to someone (we are all human), then I also know that this is my path, and that other person and wish him even more luck, and what is surprising with this man I have established a great relationship, and I know that meeting a man for me is a good sign, that means that I will soon be all better (after all, not a drunkard or scoundrel met).

Lily,

most importantly, you know (not believe, but know it) that all goes nailuchshim way for you and do not spare yourself in anything, including what you do not like the work, the main thing is not to think that everything here is so bad, and work I'm not otherwise thinking it will just multiply and the other frustration and can imagine that then maybe life will turn out, know what has to come will come and live with optimism waiting for a change.

Остров · Post by **Остров** » Wed Oct 17, 2007 11:59

Андрей Патрушев wrote:the Answer usually lies in the deep childhood. If you ask 4-year-old child what he(she) will get a very confident answer.

This is unlikely to help. My friends son is 4-years old wants to be spider-Man. My son wants to become... a COP with a car. So figure it out there, and that someone of them will grow in the future.

I can remember all the things we dreamed in childhood. Most dreamed of the merchant Navy (I almost did, by the way, the vision is not passed

at the time Slepushkin was, and then became interested in Geology. But neither a sailor nor a geologist in the end did not.

Лилка · Post by **Лилка** » Wed Oct 17, 2007 12:11

I did not think that the work is "not very"... just saying, I feel that it was bad... well, I'm not the enemy itself... and then happened (!!!) circumstances. I decided to write a statement... and without hesitation went away
turned out, I at the zero point which is...

Димитрий · Post by **Димитрий** » Wed Oct 17, 2007 12:41

Остров wrote:is Unlikely to help. My friends son is 4-years old wants to be spider-Man. My son wants to become... a COP with a car. So figure it out there, and that someone of them will grow in the future.

IMHO, maybe you need to look deeper?

After all, spider-man - quick, and saves the day...

And the merchant Navy - a romantic undiscovered country...

лилия wrote:I did not think that the work is "not very"... just saying, I feel that it was bad... well, I'm not the enemy itself... and then somehow got (!!!) circumstances. I decided to write a statement... and without hesitation went away
turned out, I at the zero point which is...

I had this once and again... IMHO, you need to dissociate itself from the idea of some kind of search to dig deeper into their shortcomings, the time that is, maybe something can be corrected, to balance...

Остров · Post by **Остров** » Wed Oct 17, 2007 12:43

One of my old drugbank that has their own business, once said that if a woman cannot choose what to be in life to do, then surely it is preparing itself to become a housewife.

So, Lil, do not load;) to Be a good housewife -- a prestigious, too:)

Остров · Post by **Остров** » Wed Oct 17, 2007 12:46

Остров wrote:So, Lil, not грузитесьWink to Be a good housewife-also престижноSmile

Played it go and dolls, mothers and daughters?:)

Лилка · Post by **Лилка** » Wed Oct 17, 2007 12:54

Димитрий wrote:IMHO, it is necessary to dissociate itself from the idea of some kind of search to dig deeper in their weakness,

so I have adjusted to my job??? isn't that a little inhumane?

Остров wrote:to Be a good housewife-too prestigious

Остров wrote:Played it go and dolls, mothers and daughters?

Israeli, shit....(((((((((((((((

Остров · Post by **Остров** » Wed Oct 17, 2007 13:01

лилия wrote:igrali, shit....(((((((((((((((

What are You so upset?:) Even if the husband works, and You keep a household, raise children, keep the focus, so to speak))) I would be happy if the wife was at home

Остров · Post by **Остров** » Wed Oct 17, 2007 13:08

лилия wrote:so I have adjusted to my job??? isn't that a little inhumane?

No. Dimitri has in mind that you need not to be attached to the goal. IMHO.

Лилка · Post by **Лилка** » Wed Oct 17, 2007 13:13

And what a bad goal to find their place??????

Остров · Post by **Остров** » Wed Oct 17, 2007 13:17

лилия wrote:what a bad goal to find its place??????

Nothing. Not a bad goal in itself, but bound to her. Generally, the binding to the target is a very complex subject for beginners and deserves discussion in a separate topic.

Лилка · Post by **Лилка** » Wed Oct 17, 2007 13:26

Nnno, yeah... me too much...(((

Can I have something more down to earth then, so to speak: in fact... if possible of course...

Евгений Кош · Post by **Евгений Кош** » Wed Oct 17, 2007 13:29

Остров wrote:One of my old drugbank that has their own business, once said that if a woman cannot choose what to be in life to do, then surely it is preparing itself to become a housewife.

So, Lil, do not load;) to Be a good housewife -- a prestigious, too:)

Rejecting the variant of Andrew, You in return don't give your version of how Lily to realize their goals..
A variant of the "drugmonkey" - smiled

because being a "housewife" is a fact - deal with the household.. and not anything else ... ie - the contradiction of the findings of Your drugbank.

Остров · Post by **Остров** » Wed Oct 17, 2007 13:32

Остров wrote:Lily wrote(a):
And what a bad goal to find its place??????

Nothing. Not a bad goal in itself, but bound to her. Generally, the binding to the target is a very complex subject for beginners and deserves discussion in a separate topic.

Sorry, I almost unloaded and continue. In a nutshell: the law of causality works so that, the less attached You are to your goal, the more You have chances to achieve the desired. The most effective way to set a goal, visualize it in the present tense, maybe even a piece of paper to write the points, e.g., what kind of work You want (in General) and let it go (purpose) home, stopping to worry about it. After all, why worry about what You already have?

Евгений Кош · Post by **Евгений Кош** » Wed Oct 17, 2007 13:36

лилия wrote:Nnnu, yeah... me too much...(((

Can I have something more down to earth then, so to speak: in fact... if possible of course...

Lily.. You have the right questions for a beginner (it says that You are on the right track).. You are still in the beginning of the path.
Most importantly remember that You are on the right track.. Beware people-"tautologos".. they can confuse and clutter your mind..
Try to work with productions of the target (for me personally this is a difficult question.. constant grinding of skills to set the right goal and each time wonder what it can be.. but sometimes and some honor and did not know what it should be....) in order to understand and realize their desires.
Don't be afraid that it will be difficult - the results are worth the effort.

Остров · Post by **Остров** » Wed Oct 17, 2007 13:40

Евгений Кош wrote:a variant with "drugmonkey" - smiled Smile because being a "housewife" is a fact - deal with the household.. and not anything else ... ie - the contradiction of the findings of Your drugbank.

I don't know where You saw a contradiction.

Евгений Кош · Post by **Евгений Кош** » Wed Oct 17, 2007 13:57

Остров wrote:
Евгений Кош wrote:a variant with "drugmonkey" - smiled Smile because being a "housewife" is a fact - deal with the household.. and not anything else ... ie - the contradiction of the findings of Your drugbank.
I don't know where You saw a contradiction.

"...if a woman cannot choose what to be in life to do, then surely it is preparing itself to become a housewife. ..."

most response for Lily..

Analysis of this thought-virus:
1. being a housewife is housework to DO.. ( I would say that this is one of the professions).
(parse next)
2. " a woman can not choose what will to do in life."
3. "surely preparing themselves for the to be a housewife."
4. it turns out that the housewife be from bezishodnosti choice..
5. but this is not important main thing is that number 2 (can't choose) contradicts No. 3. for No. 3, it means chose to be a housewife.. and in paragraph No. 2 States that "can not choose (nothing)"..

Остров · Post by **Остров** » Wed Oct 17, 2007 14:04

Eugene Kosh

The contradictions You in another Chinese saw in my head, dear. However, I'm not going to argue with You. When you realize that the elections are unconscious and conscious, you'll probably understand the meaning.

Евгений Кош · Post by **Евгений Кош** » Wed Oct 17, 2007 14:10

Остров wrote:Eugene Kosh

The contradictions You in another Chinese saw in my head, dear. However, I'm not going to argue with You. When you realize that the elections are unconscious and conscious, you'll probably understand the meaning.

Yes, Yes.. argue with me is not necessary

and with You

the chief editor even those who used to chat

Still I look at Your posts, thinking I may keep your word, and write what it wanted (interesting) to share with us...

You have it all well ( as I understand).. this is more the posts you write for Lily.. as support for her treatment .

Остров · Post by **Остров** » Wed Oct 17, 2007 14:15

Евгений Кош wrote:write what it wanted (interesting) to share with us...

Specifically with You, I wouldn't want to share, if I have such a need:)

Евгений Кош · Post by **Евгений Кош** » Wed Oct 17, 2007 14:26

Остров wrote:
Евгений Кош wrote:write what it wanted (interesting) to share with us...
Specifically with You, I wouldn't want to share, if I have such a need:)

You probably saw my personal request that answer?

But I do see Your words that you "have something to share with the forum"..
zhdems..