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About the children...

Post by Сехмет » Mon Mar 19, 2012 17:48

Tell me, would you like to get your children engaged in the practice of concentration, meditation and self-knowledge in such a manner? And if your kids wanted to do this, would allow them? It is often the case that parents are not allowed to do to children what was done/are doing for yourself. I would like to know your opinion :)

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Post by к-13 » Mon Mar 19, 2012 18:51

Would like; would be allowed; each person must decide what he will do, better self-development than semechkami and moonshine in the alleys...

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Post by Воффка » Mon Mar 19, 2012 20:31

к-13 wrote:better self-development
Not quite correct in this case, a figure of speech :) Self-development is IMHO the best for the child.
PS and adult :)

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Post by к-13 » Mon Mar 19, 2012 20:43

At looking at how to do...
I at the time tried in his long-suffering head almost all available at that time technical equipment and crutches, which were then to find on the Internet. And now I look at myself as almost a moron))) If I was your parents I would perhaps plump allowed such a daze overage))) Crutches, of course, sometimes very help, but their main drawback is that they make the person too lazy and very dependent... And especially, if instead of the normal crutches people trying for the same purposes to use something nasty, which is more crippling than cure... I personally know a couple people who sincerely consider themselves enlightened, eager people are saying about the chakras, Kundalini and divine unconditional love, and really just sick in the head - they do not develop really, and just run from their problems in books on the esoteric, not trying to get rid of their troubles, accusing them of karma, the need to be tested before the Kingdom of God - Yes anyone but himself, but on this background of fiercely poisoning the lives of their loved ones(and his even more so) in desperate attempts to heal and guide on the right path... So that self-development self-development strife...
Here is to slip the right literature or something to suggest I will try and open will not climb.
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Post by Сехмет » Mon Mar 19, 2012 22:45

Воффка wrote:
к-13 wrote:better self-development
Not quite correct in this case, a figure of speech :) Self-development is IMHO the best for the child.
PS and adult :)
And your opinion will Express? Or only for spelling and momentum? :)

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Post by Сехмет » Mon Mar 19, 2012 22:48

к-13 wrote:I would Like; would be allowed; each person must decide what he will do, better self-development than semechkami and moonshine in the alleys...
:ay

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Post by Димас » Tue Mar 20, 2012 19:37

I would like, resolve and will to encourage these Hobbies.
My Kukushka only 8 days, but she already reacts smile on children's voices and laughter on the CD "Touch a Dolphin", smiling. Include Mozart, the sounds of whales, dolphins and noises of nature. But the most important thing is to surround the baby with love and warmth. Then, in my opinion, he will be less likely to go on a destructive road.

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Post by Воффка » Tue Mar 20, 2012 21:46

Сехмет wrote: And your opinion will Express? Or only for spelling and momentum? :)
Express :) To develop their children I would allow the way they choose, giving them until this some basis. In the process, sometimes not noticeable to them, sometimes openly caring.

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Post by Малика » Tue Mar 20, 2012 21:58

Димас wrote:My Kukushka only 8 days
Image Sincere congratulations and best wishes!!!

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Post by Андрей Патрушев » Tue Mar 20, 2012 23:46

Воффка wrote:personal development is IMHO the best for the child.
The child, on the one hand, on the principle more than anything else can't do whatever he was doing :) on the other hand, he basically can not self-development, since it requires goal-setting... :?
In my opinion, it is necessary to provide a diverse selection and to instill a curiosity for life, and there's who is behind that hooked...

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Post by Димас » Wed Mar 21, 2012 16:07

Малика wrote:Sincere congratulations and best wishes!!!
Thank you so much! :o
Андрей Патрушев wrote:it is necessary to provide a diverse selection and to instill a curiosity for life, and there's who is behind that hooked..
I agree! :ay

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Post by Сехмет » Thu Mar 22, 2012 23:30

DemAs, happy daughter :) .
Андрей Патрушев wrote:In my opinion, it is necessary to provide a diverse selection and to instill a curiosity for life, and there's who is behind that hooked...
I also believe, but "the desire to direct on a way true"... even Though their children do not want rest to send :)

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Post by Сехмет » Thu Mar 22, 2012 23:38

к-13 wrote:I personally know a couple people who sincerely consider themselves enlightened, eager people are saying about the chakras, Kundalini and divine unconditional love, and really just sick in the head - they do not develop really, and just run from their problems in books on the esoteric, not trying to get rid of their troubles, accusing them of karma, the need to be tested before the Kingdom of God - Yes anyone but himself, but on this background of fiercely poisoning the lives of their loved ones(and his even more) desperate attempts to heal and guide on the right path...
I personally about such people change your mind everything is possible, in addition. And why is it not suggested, I don't know. :? And feel in some degree belonging to him...

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Post by к-13 » Fri Mar 23, 2012 9:51

Sekhmet, the phrase "mentally ill" is not an attempt to insult these people, it's just a phrase that in my opinion, fits the description - these people often know about their problems but don't solve them(consciously ignored, only expanding the list of unresolved problems, tailings, psychological trauma, blocks and other delights indeed to the level at which only clinic will save, and it is likely that only a society from the media of it all). Moreover, to help such people to solve their problems, too, it is impossible - they already know all they need to know people, they don't need help of some sort...
Self-development does not make a person self-sufficient. And certainly it does not elevate him above the world of "mere mortals" - it only allows to integrate harmoniously into this world. If the development of someone more want somewhere to escape or in the woods as a hermit to leave, he is likely on the wrong way...

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Post by Сехмет » Fri Mar 23, 2012 16:49

к-13 wrote:Sekhmet, the phrase "mentally ill" is not an attempt to insult these people, it's just a phrase that in my opinion, fits the description
No, the phrase I understand correctly, don't worry. I still consider myself to be these people have not yet understood the essence of self-development. But to correct myself it's never too late :wink:

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Post by к-13 » Fri Mar 23, 2012 19:02

Сехмет wrote:has not yet understood the essence of self-development.
First, you can build on this.
к-13 wrote:personal development does not make a person self-sufficient. And certainly it does not elevate him above the world of "mere mortals" - it only allows to integrate harmoniously into this world. If the development of someone more want somewhere to escape or in the woods as a hermit to leave, he is likely on the wrong way...
Although there can be understood in different ways. The main goal, after all, to learn to live in harmony with others and the world in General. And to achieve this as you like...
You may recall that the man is usually the most in others are usually hate that is present in him. So I have to find and fix these things before somewhere to grow(otherwise, this "plant" is terribly unstable - the roots of something rotten). Then people won't be annoying.
You can try thoroughly to examine themselves(for example through techniques of personal story - to find the roots of the current reactions and characterizing personality traits in the events of the past - after all, understanding the causes is a big step towards getting rid of the consequences).
You can just take and try to love everyone for who they are, with all their diseases, disabilities and deformities.(That is, and all is love. This way at first glance easier, but usually changes are on the surface, and the irritation goes away inside and there is accumulated, until the jerk...)
You can wear talismans and wait for the catch, but the effect is usually temporary - sooner or later every artifact becomes weak alignment of perception to this which does not hate its happy owner, so you have to find an artifact more powerful, stronger, Yes stronger.
Ways to embark on this path do a lot privelikim someone entities lure someone tries to contact with alien intelligence to join someone eats all the stuff, hoping to catch the enlightenment... and future goals are unlikely to are very similar to everyone who wants to embark on this path...<

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